How can i help my dh.? Dr`s appt. at 5 50 ?Stress

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Dh came home ill today which is unheard of for him.
He had chest pain and palpatations over the weekend.
He is lethergic and convinced he is going to have a massive heart attack.
He is healthy,normal bmi,no family history and doesnt smoke. I really think its stress related. he says he couldnt think today and couldnt even remember where he was suppossed to be going when he left for work.His head is fuzzy. I asked him if he would like me to come to the doctor with him and he said he doesnt care either way.
Should i go and if so do i speak or will i just be an unhelpful hinderance ?
Weve been together almost 20 years and ive never known him go to the doctor before ?

i would go with him but wait in the waiting room, he is proberbly really scared andthe doesnt care either way is a definate yes even if he totally denies it, men are like kids they need someone to hold their hand!!

Dp was exactly the same ( around the same time actually) last year. He had all of the same symptoms as your DH, he was convinced that he was going to die and felt completely out of control. He immediatly went to see the Dr, who said that he appeared to be 'stressed' (really? no? ) and referred him to the local Mental health team.

He was then diagnosed with anxiety.

Hope your husband is ok

ELR i will def go with him then.
Fiofio-he is under a lot of pressure at work.
Tired emma-thanks for telling about your dh.
I think we are going to have to make a few changes,ie get out as a family a bit more-he never goes out or does anything apart from work work work !