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18 weeks pregnant and miserable

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Frances003 · 10/07/2018 15:12

Hi all I’m new to Mums net
Just wanted to ask if anyone else has experienced what I’m feeling. I’m first time pregnancy.
I’m 18 weeks pregnant , due to get married, loving partner , nice step daughter but just feel completely flat and miserable. I’ve read hormones even out around 20 weeks, but myself and my partner keep arguing, he feels I’m constantly moaning at him or that he “can’t win” in situations. And I know I’m doing it but can’t help myself.
Nothing’s making me hilariously laugh, but likeswise I’m not crying and sad .... I’m just meh and a misery ! Please tell me this will end and I will enjoy my wedding in 2 weeks 😕

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alligatorsmile · 10/07/2018 16:23

Oh you poor old stick. No amazing advice to offer, just a bit of tea and sympathy.

I was v depressed during pregnancy but that's because I am usually on ADs and they took me off them for the duration. It was horrendous. Can you get in to see a GP, maybe? See if they can do anything? Sometimes even telling someone how you;re feeling can help. I think it's tough because everyone seems to imagine you should be cock-a-hoop delighted through the whole thing and if you feel less than that there's something wrong with you. There isn't!

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