I've changed

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I've started not giving a shite what people think of me! am I old?!?

Enjoy it ..it's extremely liberating.

is it anti depressants?!? I couldnt give a shit

It's ace isn't it I'm 46 and it has come with age.

Me too. I quite love it.

It gets to a point that you visualise yourself as a yapping toy dog yapping away no one caring what you say about anything. It's at that point you say it's a waste of my time telling this total idiot what I think of him apart from saying I don't give a shit what anyone says or does, this is my life and apart from my kids nothing is important. I think that comes with age. Not to give two shits about unimportant stuff

I remember someone saying to me that it comes with age and by God where they right. As you get older you realise pleasing some of the people some of the time is relatively doable. However pleasing all of the people all of the time is impossible.

Ha ha. I love this thread, I'm a bit like that too now. Are you anti depressants Op. if yes then good for you as they are obviously working and now you are feeling liberated!

I'm on Prozac and I'm only 31 surely too young to be like This!

I feel the same and I'm 36. Could be that you're not as anxious now you're on anti depressants? I'm on Prozac too.

I'm not on anti depressants just married for 29 yrs with 6 kids. I think it's like you are running a marathon and you get to the point that you smack into the wall and you can either stand there smacking pointlessly into that wall or smash through and say fuck all the pointless shit that you deal with, and get on with all that's great in your life and the important things that enlighten your world around you.

I have no idea but it's great. I no longer do things I don't want to and I'm saving myself a fortune!!

You probably dont feel anxious any more. Its surprisingly easy to mistake anxiety for other emotions, such as being eager to please. Its the same if you take diazepam or lorazepam, its completely liberating.

I'm not on antidepressants but I am in my mid 30's.
I realised that most people are so wrapped up in themselves and their own lives to give a shit about what I'm doing so I might as well just do and say what I like!
I'm more outspoken and I say what I think more than I did when I was a bit younger. I'm less of a push over now too.
Getting older is great! Embrace it.

Another thing I can't be arsed with people's endless stupid made up dramas it's so boring!

and no one ever asks one thing about me

God I really feel like if I had the guts I'd just kill myself today. It's so pointless

Ah OP, how are you feeling? (Not wishing to be trite) You can talk to us

I just can't fucking be arsed

Hi op, how long have you been on antidepressants? They do say these feelings can get worse during the first few weeks and then you start to see a steady improvement.
Keep talking, rant, whatever helps.

years because I'm even worse without them

In sorry I didn't mean to sound patronising op, do you have much real life support?

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Hi Op, how are you today? Went to visit parent's and had no Wi-Fi 😢 Just wondered if there was anything going at the moment which triggered how you were feeling yesterday?
Is today any better?

How are you o p? I hope you are feeling fine today sending good vibes your way.