I have 3 beautiful kids my youngest being 8 months. Haven't spoken to my own mother for 7 months which has been horrendous to say the least. She hates that my youngest son has a grand parent who wants to be part of their life ... I have 2 older kids to my ex husband & his parents never bothered so my mum was happy with that set up. It all started the day I gave birth my mum didn't want my partners mum visiting me in the evening in the hospital which wasn't my decision I was glad of the company when she came with her sister. It's her first grand child & she was excited my mum didn't get that was all about her. So she called me while in hospital crying & going off her head that my partners mum had came in at night. She wasn't at my house as planned with champagne & balloons when I came home from the hospital she continued to send me abuse over the next week telling me at one point she had went to dinner with my step dad & they decided they didn't want anything to do with me! ... I decided for my own Heath to cut her off then but all I wanted was her to calm
Down apologise & we could have moved on. I ended up on medication because I was having palpitations In my chest & anxiety over it all I told her this & she said it was nothing to do with her & my problem. She has then went on to put horrible posts on Facebook with people calling me a cow & she was agreeing I'm devastated . I went out last nite & met one of her friends who told me I'm basically in the wrong I'm just on the edge with it all! ... my mum is a very controlling person in general & it's her way or no way I've finally stood up to her & put my family first but it's messing with my head how can I cut off my own mum? Doesn't feel right. But I can't let her control me anymore. Just a horrible situation I have a brother & sister who don't speak to me now & I feel a bit lost . Was my sons birthday last month & he didn't even get a birthday wish it upset him & I feel like it's my fault. Just feeling very low anyone Been in a situation like this x