My brother lives in a shared flat with a flat mate he does not like. He is a very clever guy and is doing a masters but is always very down on himself. He has not been contacting our family at all and we are all very worried about him, he seems to be staying in his room and not coming out at all. Presumably he does to eat and go to the loo but that seems to be it.
He has not turned up to work and his dissertation he says is rubbish and he is now behind on that. I assume he will run out of money at some point. Although my parents send him some I think.
I went to visit him today and he would not come out of his room. I had a conversation through the door, me suggesting he comes out, he can stay with me, I can take him to stay with parents, we care about him, can I go to the doctors with him, will he go to the doctors but he won't engage at all. He just said no thank you about four times and nothing else.
Can anybody advise what to do. He will not respond to texts, emails, letters. So we don't know how he is from one week to the next. He is obviously very depressed .