Hello , I just need some advice please. I have a 15 year old son and just recently he seems to have the "cant be bothered" attitude to his schoolwork. He is a very sporty lad and loves football but even that has this stigma too. I don't want to be a pushy parent and "get at him" all the time, as I explain to him that I only want the best for him, but I only ask him that he does well in school so he doesn't have struggles when trying to get a job. My husband tells me to leave him be as its his life but, as I said, I don't want him struggling financially like we do. Its his parents evening tonight at school and I am not looking forward to it, the worry and overthinking sometimes make me ill. Am I worrying too much?