I am asking this question, because I am trying to make sense of a work situation.
A person at work keeps suggesting I am making mistakes, however it is definitely her. She has form for making up "errors' and/or claiming that a mistake made by her is in fact someone else's mistake, do there is a will behind it, however I sometimes wonder whether she is actually having gaps where she makes a mistake, then forgets she did it, so that when she next sees it, its a surprise, as she also does this when talking..eg she says 'you have done a lot today' , I say ' yes it's been a good day' then she says 'oh well, don't worry, we all have bad days..are you OK?'
It could be intentional, but sometimes she seems confused sort of amongst herself iyswim.
She often jokes about being 'mad' and 'out to lunch'.
I mostly think that as I resist the tactics, and they don't work, they sort of reflect back onto her, but sometimes I think she just confused herself because she can't remember how she wanted reality to look (she can be openly manipulative).
She will also do something, then say to herself 'I didn't do that, why is that there'..but not in a joking way..
Wwyd?