Yesterday's issue mad my fault as I didn't ask my mum to feed the DCs before I picked them had from hers. I picked them up at 5:30, I'm sure she could have used some initiative... And DS fell asleep. But yes, I definitely do need a better sleep regime for both of them. When DS is tired he is starting to tell us that he 'need go bed' which is cute and bedtime tends to be quicker if we do it straight after him saying that. I made a positive step with DD. she woke up after her dream feed as I was putting her in her cot and was fussing a little. Usually I'd pick her up I know I'm making a rod for my own back but tonight I left her as I was desperate for a wee, by the time I was done in the bathroom she was soundo so I'm going to keep trying her 'sleepy-but-awake' in her cot, probably after the dream feed, and hopefully move on to putter her straight down I. Her cot without her faking asleep in the car seat anymore. DS is quite happy to fall asleep with me sitting on a bean bag next to his bed and knitting / playing on my phone. I need to start moving it further and further across the room again. I've put a blanket in DS's room so in the nights when he wakes up I can sit in the bean bag and tuck myself up warm rather than get into bed with him. My knees are thanking me for that!
DP did do a lot yesterday. We spent an hour together swishing water out of the kitchen, then he carried on and did another hour after I left for work. Then he went off to work. Actually I'm not sure what he did after he got back from work. I picked DD up and did the cats and went to the supermarket en route home. He probably got back 2hra before me, he did tidy the lounge. Although I'll forgive him yesterday, when the day stars with sweeping water out of the back door in the cold in your undies id say that's plenty enough housework for the day!! that may be part of why the house is a mess though!!
If I get a chance, I wil make a chart tomorrow of all of the house chores, we need to divvy them up between us. I have laundry because DP won't do it, and I don't trust him to to wreck the clothes, I quite like laundry anyway. I would like him to have dishwasher and rubbish bins. Then we have bathroom, living room, kids rooms, bedroom, kitchen, boot room that all need to be kept tidy. And then cleaning and hoovering Everywhere too.
I was following the FlyLady programme a few months ago. One of the habits was a 'Swish and swipe' in the bathroom - swish the inside of the loo and swipe all of the surfaces. I should build that back into my evening routine. And in the kitchen it was 'shine your sink' every night. I always take a drink up to bed, the last place I stand is at the sink, so I should start cleaning it again.
My CPN said she would call home start to see if they could offer any bedtime advice, I will chase that up next time I see her. I need to talk to HV too really. We still think that DS is probably autistic, he has made a lot of progress since we saw th HV last, but he hasn't caught up tet, not close. And yet he is years above them with things like his motor skills.
Cold had eased throughout the day. My nose is normalish now, but my lungs are still bad fingerdcrossedvggc