Ex and I still married but separated. Last two years together very toxic and ended with him having breakdown. We all went through so much. However he never went far and missed DC so much. In the last few years has had alcohol issues, self harm, lost a great job. Generally hit rock bottom.
Last year or so has tried to make amends, has recently been diagnosed with borderline pd. Seems to be relieved and now wants to work to get back together. Wants to do relate and move in. I still love him but worry that kids have been through too much. Anyone had experience? Is there a positive outcome or should l cut and run for good?