How do i know if this is peri-menopause, another bout of depression or marriage on the rocks?

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My mood swings, rage, exhaustion, insomnia - is not helping our marriage - but hard to know if this is peri-menopause and will pass (in 4 years?) -- or if I am depressed again, or if I just hate my husband and our relationship is over. I am 47...

I think that seeing a doctor would be a good idea. Whether it's peri-menopause or depression, it will be easier to save your marriage if you can get those symptoms under control.

Definitely worth going to gp and get tests if possible for hormone levels - if it is peri-menopause that can be treated.