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Would I be going back to work too soon?

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TilTheStarsFall · 07/10/2014 15:48

I have been signed off work for the last month with depression. It had been 5 years since my last episode and it came over me very quickly and I ended up breaking down at work and being sent home.

I have been given AD's and after a couple of weeks began to feel better. I am now 4 weeks in and only really began to feel like myself again at the end of last week. I am finally able to face people again and Can feel my get up and go coming back.

However, I am scared that if I go back to work next week (due to see GP later this week) that it will be too soon and may set me back. What should I do?

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TilTheStarsFall · 07/10/2014 16:32

Bump

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KeemaNaanAndCurryOn · 07/10/2014 17:46

If you've only just started to feel right, then I'd give it a bit more time. The worst thing would be to get back into work only to have to take time off again soon.

MrsMinton · 07/10/2014 17:51

If you need more time then take it. It's better to be feeling yourself. If you do want to try going back though The fit notes can give you a phased return.

TilTheStarsFall · 07/10/2014 18:07

I don't hunk I'm quite ready to return just yet so will ask for more time.

It's been an awful few weeks, I could barely leave the couch let alone the house for the first fortnight. Only now can I really gave people and going out without wanting to run home.

It scared me how quickly I went from "not depressed" to "on my knees with depression".

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MrsMinton · 07/10/2014 18:16

I wish I could take some time off. I think you are being really gentle with yourself and that's the best way to get well and stay better.

TilTheStarsFall · 07/10/2014 18:51

Sorry for all the errors in my last post, my phone has a mind of its own.

I guess I should be grateful I work in a cottage hospital and my boss has been more than understanding. The hospital staff have also been keeping in touch and making sure I am okay :).

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MrsMinton · 07/10/2014 19:20

They sound lovely and knowing they are like that makes it easier I imagine Smile

furcoatbigknickers · 07/10/2014 19:22

I think you should wait until you're really ready.x

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