He has flushed them and is shouting at me. I have tried to explain that I have them stored as a kind of safety net I know they are tethered and that makes me happy.Because I know if things get to bad I have a way out.
Now I'm really panicking and having anxiety as he has taken my safety net away.I was counting them to calm myself as I've had a very bad day and just knowing they are there makes me feel better iyswim.