Sorry to be cheeky - I realised after posting in the relevant forum that it gets very little traffic and perhaps I should have posted on here instead anyway.
Anyway - here is my thread about my dilemma. It is long and somewhat tedious so you'll be brave to take a look. Basically I'm looking for advice on whether to try and manage without the ADs for a bit longer given baby is due in 7 weeks - a reality check. Hopefully there'll be someone on here who has been through the same or can see past my meanderings.