Life choices??

[zonat92]

Im feeling so down lately. Just need some advice, i just dont no what too do with my life! Work has always been important, now ttc ds2 is taking over! do i really want another? do i really want to work more than have kids! i understand u can do both but i need too decide on 1 fornow and commit to it. im so confused. just wish someone could tell me what i want!! ??

How old is your older child?
What is your job?

I wouldn't have another baby unless your 100% sure you want one

What does your dp/ dh think?

I 100% do, maybe too much :/. My lbs 1. im a youth worker! im just scared i think. Just feels like i dont no whats going on with my life somedays! and he just supports whatever i want really :/

Do you mean your dc1 is 1? If so why not take a bit more time? Do you have to ttc now?

If you and your DP want another baby and want to commit, do it. I have two 2.5 years apart and it can be lovely. You will find a way to balance work life and home life, it's more trial and error and what works for you to be honest. There's no manual.

Do you have to start ttc right now or can you hold off for a few months?

I don't have too right now, but i can't think of anything else. i love my little boy so much but just want another so badly!
HMallik- thankyou thats a good idea :) im sure whatever happens things will be just fine :) xx

I have that feeling. Sometimes it us constant for a few months and other times it comes and goes. I am dead set that in the future there will be another child with DP though. What heloed me was writing lists and a five year plan.

Thankyou. Yeah maybe i need too just have a good think & plan what i want. I dread AF arriving but i bet if it didn't i would be in complete shock hah :)