a good friend's sister has severe OCD, and drinks a lot to deal with it. she refuses medication, saying it doesn't help her. all that helps is talking to her sister (my friend) about the things that worry her, but this has been going on for some years now, and no improvement, if anything, things are worse. they are both lovely people, and I'm concerned for both of them, and keen to suggest what might help. would value your views, thanks, T4T