I was abused for 8 years [at least] by my bastard brother the problem is he's never been charged and now his surviving son [his youngest died aged 13] has got married I'm worried in case they have children especially daughters as children stay over at grandparents don't they.If they do, do I say something. I don't really see him but he does no me. But its brought it all back coupled with all the medical problems I've suffered which I'm beginning to think is his fault.