I have no one to tell IRL without sounding like a boastful twit, so I hope I will get away with it here... After my second DC I was so flabby (well, and overweight, but I hoped I’d get back to my usual weight over time: I gained a lot in both pregnancies but went back to normal within a year after the first), and decided to invest in 12 sessions with a personal trainer. It felt very expensive, but I thought if I put my money where my mouth is maybe I’ll actually commit and sort myself out. I’ve had half my sessions, and I now have visible abs! On the sides, the mum-tum continues to exist, but I feel SO good and also proud of myself for doing the sessions (one even in light rain!, and one when recovering from food poisoning), taking baby along for most of them as I didn’t have childcare, putting the work in - and seeing the rewards! Hoping the rest of the sessions will pay off even more, and once I have some mental space I will try his diet plan too. So pleased!