It's not them making me feel bad! It's me!
I help out at the marathon events so have been there and watched these people do 2, 4 or 7 marathons in a row. I've passed them water and put the medals around their necks - they're not bullshitting me.
The only thing they're really guilty of is either looking non-plussed when I talk about doing a half or repeatedly saying "well, when you do a marathon" like it's inevitable when I'm feeling like a half is more than I can cope with at the moment. In their own way they're trying to be encouraging. It's in my head where I compare them getting up and doing marathon number 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 (a good few turned up to do the 7 in a row having already done 2 the weekend before) to me being so achey after the half marathon that I couldn't have run even that again today.
It's me that needs the kicking for comparing me to them, not them for being mean. They're a lovely group of people and I don't want people to think badly of them! The guy running things yesterday joked that I've now done more half marathons than him because while he's done over 100 marathons, he's only ever done 1 half marathon. There was no malice in it at all though, it was just one of those funny facts. Kristina was right in that they're the wrong sort of people to talk to right now but it's because they're in a whole other class to me which is why I thought I'd ask some runners who were more my level.
Sorry if I gave the wrong impression.