Thanks for that Midgebabe - I would add
Simplicity with the Irish boarders - I do think if I had thought hard enough about this I might have gone the other way (I know I should have it is pretty obvious)
But just to go through our others and how I justified/ still justify them to myself:
Peace in Europe - maybe I am naive but I hope war is isn’t going to break out anytime soon in Europe and the EU Probably wouldn’t make much difference anyway
Good trading deals with our nearest neighbour, net benefit was measured and substantial - yes I hoped for and still do hope for a good trade deal.
Freedom of movement around Europe - I suppose a bit more control on this is not necessarily a disaster although harder work (paperwork) for us all. But perhaps someone wanting to come from Mexico for example would now be on a level with someone from France and it would depend on their qualifications etc. Nice for us to be able to go and live in Europe if we want I guess.
Ability to have a voice at the global table - hopefully we still can - admittedly not as part of a bigger block
A voting option in Europe way above that due to us based on country size - that sounds good if we want to influence Europe I guess.
Europe pushing for better employment and human rights for us all - again lots if you will think I am naive but I hope our government would do this too. It would be able to and it can do things that Europe doesn’t let us do - two small examples removing VAT on sanitary products and banking live exports.