The difference being time this has been done to death and Remainers have answered these questions countless times, which can be proven in any number of threads in this section.
This isn't like the mythical Leaver discussions frequently refered to elsewhere.
The title if this thread isn't even relevant anymore.
we know it's 'no deal is better than a bad deal'
Soft Brexit isn't on offer.
Even when people realise they are going to be adversely affected by Brexit they aren't going to have a mechanism to air those thoughts.
This is 'the will of the people' - we do indeed just need to 'suck it up' now.
The only things worthy of discussion now are the current facts like the fact TM cannot do anything more than read statements; that she is completely out of her depth answering questions so she avoids them; that significant points in the Tory manifesto have been backtracked on already.
But the OP doesn't want to talk about any of those points; just continually pick over pointless ground in order to pick a fight.