You're not missing anything wrong, I'm just pointing out that I don't think there's a cat in hells chance A50 will be invoked in March.
I'm not saying it won't happen but TM needs to buy some time to actually come up with a plan; the Supreme Court ruling would make that happen if it went against the government.
On your other point, I've been trying to 'understand the views of my fellow countrypersons a bit better' for 7 months now but in that time I've not heard anything that reasssures me the fallout of leaving is going to be worth while.
It's all still, yeah we're leaving, screw them, they need us more than we need them, rhetoric. I'm happy to listen to new thoughts, ideas and perspectives, it's just that they are sadly lacking round here.