*You voted Leave, so did surfer but you clearly have different objectives, but neither can state what they are.
Don't you see the problem here?* 
No, I can't.
I voted on one thing, and one thing only - to leave the EU.
My reasons for doing so were many, but the main reason (for me) was that I didn't like what the EU had become & was becoming.
As with most things in life, I would imagine the wants of voters are on a bell curve.
Few hard Remain, few hard Brexit, majority clustered to either side in the middle.
That's why I think a soft Brexit would be the most likely outcome.
By delaying Article 50, Theresa May has allowed everyone (other EU countries & EU leaders as well as UK) to take a breath and a step back.
I do think we'll come out with a decent deal tbh, especially because many of the other EU countries are looking for similar reforms to the ones we have voted Brexit over.
It would be in the EU Project's best interest to reform the hardline, blanket nature of free movement for eg and allow countries to have some controls and balances - to not do so will stoke far right feeling and popularity further in France, Germany etc.
Brexit is a good excuse to hide behind for much needed reforms.
Just my opinion, obvs - I clearly don't speak for the other 17+ million people.