"This is an issue that upsets me a great deal. I posted when I was upset.
You might get that its an issue that provokes a lot of emotion. But then again you just won't get that. Mainly because it suits not to try and understand why that's the case and its easy to snipe about it."
I don't live in a bubble. I do understand that this is a highly emotional issue,and one which people find personally upsetting. I don't know what I've said to give the impression I don't. I am aware that NI has faced terrible division and violence and that it is frightening to think that might return.
I don't understand why that being the case makes it okay to make offensive generalisations about leavers (such as that they don't give a shit, which no-one has said). I don't think it is sniping to point out when this happens.
I have found the whole referendum process deeply distressing (note for clarity, I am not in any way comparing the ref to the Troubles). I feel that some relationships have been irreparably damaged. I believe it is now acceptable to talk about groups of people in a way which would not have been countenanced a short while ago.
I wish I was more articulate, and am very nervous of being misinterpreted as these threads seem to get very belligerent at times. NI is an issue which is difficult/complex/divisive/upsetting. So is the EU referendum. I just don't think belittling people's views, making gross generalisations and, well, just thinking that because people voted a certain way in the EU ref we must be aliens from different planets with no possibility of sharing views on anything gets anyone anywhere. People can not be expected to just ignore insults aimed at "leavers" as a homogenous one-minded group and continue discussing the topic in hand, that's just not how things work.