Some people are sick of people expecting them to be 'answerable' to them and be the voice of Brexit.
It's this absolute lack of accountability, at every level, which frustrates the 48% of us who didn't want to leave the EU.
At the highest political level: promise anything, retract anything, stir up anything, and at no point is there any consequence. There's no official party of Brexit: nobody who'll ever be voted out, nobody who'll be called to account for the consequences.
I honestly can't believe any intelligent Leave voter could be anything but chilled by Boris Johnson's hasty and completely unanticipated exit. These are the public figures who advocated Brexit: one doesn't have the guts to deal with the fallout, and the other has betrayed his ally and suddenly reversed countless statements about not wanting the leadership himself.
But instead of saying, shit, this doesn't look great and I can understand people's anxiety, the typical Brexit poster on Mumsnet seems to have got more and more defensive and bitter, and 'I don't have to justify myself to YOU' seems to be a prevalent response to any questions. Why shouldn't you justify yourself? Why shouldn't you explain, if it's so self-evident that despite the events of the previous week this was for the best?
I've read the whole 'only for Leavers' thread, and it's just... it's like a tea party in an alternate universe. Starts off with tub-thumping about how the people have spoken, the elites have been cast down, it's a revolution.
Then any economic issues are either firmly denied (project fear has become project doom and gloom), or insinuated to be Remainers' fault: negative attitude, fear-mongering, and maybe the UK government has deliberately sabotaged the economy because it's angry with the result. All experts saying negative stuff are establishent stooges. One guy says something positive, and he's the saviour, and the tide has turned.
Then, in recent days, this sense of victimhood and martyrdom emerges. Suggestions that the Remain advocates are, in fact, as bad as or worse than the racists. Brexiters are oppressed, persecuted. Reading this, you'd come to think they were a small, plucky minority fighting terrible odds.
And now this self-pitying 'everyone's being so horrid and negative and asking me to point out genuine positives' mood. I'm so sorry if it gets you all down, but you ARE the voice of Brexit, if you voted for it, and if you have nothing to say then those of us who'll have to live with the consequences have every right to feel ripped off.
So there'll be no accountability from campaign leaders, and none from voters: I assume, given the current attitude, that when the country backslides into recession it will be someone else's fault, too. The faceless elites screwing us all over again? Westminster sabotaged us? Bremainers did too much dummy-spitting and accidentally ruined the economy? The people who led us into this will never, ever acknowledge their part. And considering the immense implications of their decision, that is an absolutely fucking cop-out.