I work in care management. What I see a lot is families putting their family members in an expensive home, paying for a couple of months then wanting a care assessment and financial assessment because now they can’t afford it. Most of the time the council will then take over funding but if they haven’t been in there very long or they are deemed not to need much in the level of care it will be decided that the council will only fund visits at home. I have seen families give up their council house to force the council into paying only for this to backfire as the family have made the relative homeless and they have got into trouble for this. I have never seen anyone been forced to move out of a home that they now consider their home because they have lived in it for more than 6 months.
what I do see a lot is families that have to pay a top up, ie the council funding and then family has to pay a bit on top to afford the fancy home, often the son who brags about his brand new Porsche and the many holidays he has had this year who only visits once a year refuse to pay it but the 70 year old man who is retired on a modest pension who can’t afford a car will happily pay for the top up fee for his 98 year old mother who he visits 4x a year.
The many dealings I have had with social workers over the last ten years, I have always found them very understanding, if we don’t believe that a resident will cope at home we will show them the evidence to back this up and they won’t move them.
sorry if any of that is garbled, in the middle of feeding a baby