Hi all, MIL 92 has heart failure and kidney failure. Last 6 weeks mobility has reduced and in and out of hospital. Discharged from hospital today with a home care assessment. After a battle come back with 3 times a day care short term. Problem is she seems to think we will look after her and as time goes on our lives are consumed with the physical of doing more and mental of worrying about what is happening and what happens next. I’m sure lots of you have faced this before. How do you protect you and your life from being taken over. I feel resentful that I didn’t sign up for this and no one asked me!!