Doctors have just moved my mum onto end of life pathway

[JontyDoggle37]

She’s been in hospital two weeks after a fall and pneumonia, suddenly deteriorated this afternoon, barely conscious and quite distresssed now. Doctors have said this it, waiting for my husband and could do with a handhold

Popping in to say good morning and I hope today is peaceful. The handhold continues.

My thoughts are with you at this most difficult of times.

I used to work in care OP and it never ceased to amaze me how long the body could keep going for..... even when the person was so frail and so ready to go.

It took a week with my Nan. But DH's dad took a few days. It's something they really can't predict but the main thing is that your Mum is comfortable and not in distress. Thinking of you

Still with you OP.

Thinking of you and hoping you have a peaceful time together x

Just checking in again op - still thinking of you.

I remember this time (with my father and dparentinlaw) as being very surreal and strange. It's hard to reconcile life bustling along outside with everything you are confronting in the hospital. It's very draining so do take care of yourself. Lovely that your ds could offer comfort!

Wishing your mum peace and comfort.

Thinking of you Jonty - and sorry, but it could go on for longer. Such a hard time. You must take care of yourself.

I was there six months ago - it's not easy, at times I was willing her to die, at others, hating myself for feeling that way
You will get through it though- I promise

Echoing what others have said - mum was given a week after two devastating stokes that took her mind off to some alternative reality (luckily in a good way!) and she lasted 3 months

Thank you everyone for all your support. Mum held on long enough for her sister (who’s also been unwell) to visit, and passed away peacefully this morning about ten minutes after her sister left.

Sending you love and thoughts. Glad your Mum passed peacefully - I know that will give you comfort over the coming days.

I'm sorry for your loss op. It's still a huge shock even when it is expected, so go easy on yourself. It was so good that you could be with your mum in her last days and hours and I'm relieved for you both that the end was peaceful

Glad she passed peacefully after her sisters visit. 💐 and hugs

Glad your vigil is over Jonty and so sorry you've joined the team of those who watched and waited.

Sending love and strength for the next bit. Knowing it was coming does not ease the heartache ❤️

Oh Jonty I'm glad this part is over, for you and for your Mum.

Whatever happens next, take it in your own time. As pp said, expecting it doesn't make it easier. Sending love.

I'm sorry for your loss.
You will look back on this and wonder how you managed and coped, but it is done with love. Take care of yourself.

So sorry for your loss. Get a good rest tonight. You've had such a tough few days. Don't be rushed into any arrangements. Take time to do things as you feel best.

Sending kind thoughts

May your lovely mum Rest In Peace, Jonty, and may you have peace and strength over the coming days

Sorry for your loss. Remember to look after yourself now

Have been thinking of you and your Mum.

May she rest in peace

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm glad your mum passed peacefully