Suppose it would be adolescent to comment - Rudolf Steiner is so last century, or even last epoch. But never mind.
Seriously now: JJsandcat said:
'I wish for my child to become integrated into our society, to become an integral part and support said system with the things he's learnt'. Right on the nail sandcat.
I have 3 dcs and experience of a couple of Steiner schools, lasting about 5 years. I took my dd out after finally understanding that the standard of education at her school was woefully poor, not charmingly eccentric. Only afterwards did she tell me she'd been taught - there's no other useful word for it - creationism. That might be fine with the folks in the Bible belt of the US but in this year of Darwin I can be pretty sure it's not a good foundation for understanding this particular society.
I'm not joking when I talk about evidence.
The kindergarten system can be great for many children but it exists throughout Scandinavia without Steiner's bizarre ramblings gained, it's worth repeating, clairvoyantly. I managed to ignore that fact for years until I saw the impact these queasy ideas had on other families less robust than mine. And that matters to me, in fact when I read some of these stories I'm ashamed that I was ever involved. Added to that the shame of having been so reckless with my dds' future chances. But at the time it all appealed to me and if I'm honest that was really the point. Now I have experience of several different schools, all good in their own ways and I'm savvy enough to smell a rat, however many flowery garlands it's wearing. I was so naive.
Last night I watched Dispatches on Pakistan and remembered zazizoma saying she'd be happy to send her dc to a madrassa if they offered a good education. I don't think you meant that, really, did you? I can't help thinking the last thing this world needs is more religion, especially aimed at children. Not that I mind our familiar and much-loved C of E schools. They don't advocate the ritual mutilation of little girls. Not that I'm an expert on this subject: for that you need Ayaan Hirsi Ali. I recommend her.