thecaty
you said
"now wants her child that was pushed about in state school to have the best education she could wish for her child."
imo that is making Steiner schools out to be superior, and denegrating state schools.
With the exception of Hereford, Steiner schools are private; even if they were "the best education (one) could wish for (one's) child", only a very small percentage of the population could afford it.
And I'm sure that many people struggle to pay the fees as it is.
At the school we were, they asked for more money over and above what we payed.
To take up Maria's points, our school was small and badly managed; there was obvious infighting and splits and tension among staff, which even the children commented on.
For some time it was obvious one teacher was extremely stressed, and was not being given the support it was obvious she needed; although the class was in disarray, I did feel tremendous sympathy for her, and tried to support her. It looked as if there was a mass turn against her, in quite a nasty way.
She did behave strangely and unpredicatably; my dc was deeply affected, as were the whole class; their reaction was palpable; and they were so young and vulnerable, and looked in a shocked state some of the time...
But it didn't appear she was being supported. I wonder in hindsight, whether "anthroposophically" her sort of breaking down was karmic as far as they were concerned; even though children were being so affected by it, she was left to flounder.
In the end, she resigned; imo she was given no option.
This would not have been able to happen at a properly moinitored school.
It was unprofessional at best, dangerous at worst.
Apparently she was going to prosecute for unfair dismissal... but... she got a job at another Steiner school. [hmn]