I don't want to make SWS 'better'.
I want people to be aware that private schools in the UK can be run in an incredibly haphazard way and that it seems that SOME SWS's are run like this.
I want to protect children and their families who might wander unwittingly into a very chaotic schooling system while trying to find something more caring and child centred for their dc's.
I want families to understand that although SWE has been around for decades, many of the teachers in these schools have not been.
I want people to understand that in a school with no management structure it is very difficult to hold anyone accountable for anything.
I don't contribute very often theCaty cos my experience of SWE does not leave me with anything much to debate about.
And finally, in my situation, and in the situation of many of the families posting here, I hold the school 100% accountable for what happened.
My dcs have been in education for 8 years now in a number of different situations and we have never had any major issues or problems. I'm pretty easy going, am very invloved in my local community and find it easy to get on with all sorts of people. Our SWS experience was a circus and I was very encouraged by the school to blame myself and my children for the mess we found ourselves in.
The only blame I lay at my door is that I didn't u-turn straight out of that insane place.
It's about time that SWS's stood up and took responsiblity for the messes they create and stopped blaming the children. (Maybe they should review their 'training')
FFS! (that means for fuck's sake, before you ask)