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Play date with mum who agrees with education tax

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BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 12:41

Please let me know if I’m overreacting. I recently overheard a new mum at school talking about a local private school closing down due to the education tax and how this is somehow a good thing. She’s now invited my DD for a play date, would you accept?

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BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:14

TheTealZebra · 21/06/2025 19:51

It was quite a simple statement, so not sure there is much to clarify. I'm a teacher at a school with a lot of flux / kids coming and going. I've probably come across hundreds of kids moving schools in my career. For the vast majority, moving schools is completely fine and they take it in their stride.

It was a simple statement, I just don’t understand the relevance or what you are getting at?

Im not a teacher, but it seems quite obvious to me that having to move schools away from their friends, teachers etc in a school they are happy in is not a good thing? There’s quite a lot of research on how it can be damaging for children (see below). Also losing your job isn’t fun.

Considerably, moving school can have its most profound impact on a child emotionally. It can lead young students to exhibit negative feelings of anxiety, sadness, frustration, and loneliness.

Psychological Effects of Moving Schools

Psychological Effects of Moving Schools - Articles UnisHanoi

Change schools can have impacts on a child. So parents need to understand the psychological effects of moving schools to help children overcome them

https://articles.unishanoi.org/psychological-effects-of-moving-schools/

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ThisGutsyBalonz · 21/06/2025 20:14

Guess what, state schools don't remove inequality
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Another76543 · 21/06/2025 20:19

ThisGutsyBalonz · 21/06/2025 20:14

Guess what, state schools don't remove inequality
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One of the most sensible comments on here!

TheaBrandt1 · 21/06/2025 20:19

I’ve actually heard that comment that state school parents don’t care about education in real life. It’s shockingly rude and a horrible upsetting thing to say. Seeing it actually written down by that poster made me shudder. Sadly I think it is what some private school parents think.

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:23

Moving schools can be really positive if well managed, happens all the time for a multitude of reasons.

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:24

TheaBrandt1 · 21/06/2025 20:19

I’ve actually heard that comment that state school parents don’t care about education in real life. It’s shockingly rude and a horrible upsetting thing to say. Seeing it actually written down by that poster made me shudder. Sadly I think it is what some private school parents think.

If I’m reading the same comment then they literally said it’s not true and is a lazy stereotype. I don’t know much about private schools really but I’d assume most PS kids go to state schools at some point? Like at primary school or Alevels

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BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:26

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:23

Moving schools can be really positive if well managed, happens all the time for a multitude of reasons.

I knew someone would write this. Amazing logic.

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Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:27

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:26

I knew someone would write this. Amazing logic.

Sorry, what's wrong with my logic?

ChiliFiend · 21/06/2025 20:28

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 14:42

Excuse me. The government have introduced a 20% tax on education services for children aged between 5 and 18. It came in on January 1st. I think a tiny bit of research might help before posting rude comments.

I'm perfectly aware of the tax to which you are referring. It's VAT on the supply of a service (private education), and should never have been exempt. Calling it "education tax" makes it sound as though it isn't VAT and is something designed specifically to hurt education, which is ridiculous. Like VAT on all other services, if you can't afford it with VAT, you can't afford it.

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:35

ChiliFiend · 21/06/2025 20:28

I'm perfectly aware of the tax to which you are referring. It's VAT on the supply of a service (private education), and should never have been exempt. Calling it "education tax" makes it sound as though it isn't VAT and is something designed specifically to hurt education, which is ridiculous. Like VAT on all other services, if you can't afford it with VAT, you can't afford it.

Yes, a tax on non state education for children (not nurseries or university yet). It is designed to hurt that sector and seems to be doing a pretty good job. It doesn’t sound very nice because it isn’t.

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Mintsj · 21/06/2025 20:36

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:23

Moving schools can be really positive if well managed, happens all the time for a multitude of reasons.

Or it can be traumatic. See: loads of kids with ASD in these smaller privates. Like my DS was.

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:38

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:27

Sorry, what's wrong with my logic?

Dude, I’m not getting into a conversation how forcing children to move schools is a positive thing. It’s a bit ridiculous.

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Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:39

Mintsj · 21/06/2025 20:36

Or it can be traumatic. See: loads of kids with ASD in these smaller privates. Like my DS was.

Most are not and most schools (yes, even the state ones sneered at here) will bend over backwards to help those with or without SEND.

Another76543 · 21/06/2025 20:39

ChiliFiend · 21/06/2025 20:28

I'm perfectly aware of the tax to which you are referring. It's VAT on the supply of a service (private education), and should never have been exempt. Calling it "education tax" makes it sound as though it isn't VAT and is something designed specifically to hurt education, which is ridiculous. Like VAT on all other services, if you can't afford it with VAT, you can't afford it.

VAT is a tax. Value Added Tax. It is a tax levied on education services, as stated in the legislation. Things like caviar and first class flights attract no VAT. The fact is that our government thinks that education should be taxed but caviar shouldn’t says everything about them.

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:41

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:38

Dude, I’m not getting into a conversation how forcing children to move schools is a positive thing. It’s a bit ridiculous.

Forcing children to move schools - I must be a terrible parent then as I 'made' mine move school. There is no logic to your argument.

Oh and please don't call me 'dude'.

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:49

Jumpthewaves · 21/06/2025 20:41

Forcing children to move schools - I must be a terrible parent then as I 'made' mine move school. There is no logic to your argument.

Oh and please don't call me 'dude'.

I’m referring to Government policy forcing children to move schools rather than parents moving their children through choice. I’m sure you had your reasons and didn’t just move them for the ‘positive experience’ of moving schools.

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cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:49

Another76543 · 21/06/2025 19:41

Yes it’s easy to understand. Some can access an excellent education via the state. Others can’t. That’s where the inequality lies. As you say, you’ll understand if you try really hard. Why are people so blind to the inequalities within the state sector? Why are people so keen to defend it? Presumably because they’re not the ones having to put up with dire state provision.

I know there are inequalities within the state sector. The solution isn’t for some people to buy their way out though.

Another76543 · 21/06/2025 20:51

cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:49

I know there are inequalities within the state sector. The solution isn’t for some people to buy their way out though.

The solution is to eliminate the inequalities within the state sector. Make every state school excellent and people wouldn’t feel the need to use private. The majority of parents aren’t paying tens of thousands of pounds for the fun of it.

cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:52

Hoppinggreen · 21/06/2025 19:59

I knew DD wouldn't be happy at our specific State provision, teachers who worked there confirmed this
Thats why in our case

And for parents of children like your DD where funding this was no option? Buying your way out is understandable but it isn’t fair or the best way to solve the issue.

ShelleyShortcake · 21/06/2025 20:52

Another76543 · 21/06/2025 20:39

VAT is a tax. Value Added Tax. It is a tax levied on education services, as stated in the legislation. Things like caviar and first class flights attract no VAT. The fact is that our government thinks that education should be taxed but caviar shouldn’t says everything about them.

So why are university fees not taxed?

cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:53

ThisGutsyBalonz · 21/06/2025 20:14

Guess what, state schools don't remove inequality
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They don’t add to it in the way private ones do though.

Maxorias · 21/06/2025 20:53

Dickieanddolly · 21/06/2025 15:35

Hell no, OP, she might turn your child in a person who believes that all kids should start on a level playing field. Imagine the horror.

(For clarity, I'm being sarcastic)

But they don't ? Kids never start on a playing field. Some are born with looks and/or brains and others not. Some have educated parents who can help them with their lessons and will convey the message that education is important, others won't. The playing field is never level.

Which is where equal opportunity comes in, but for equal opportunity to exist the state option has to be good. This is where efforts should be focused.

cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:56

Mintsj · 21/06/2025 20:36

Or it can be traumatic. See: loads of kids with ASD in these smaller privates. Like my DS was.

But we keep being told people move their children to private because of their SEND. Why isn’t that traumatic?

cardibach · 21/06/2025 20:58

BonnuitMy · 21/06/2025 20:49

I’m referring to Government policy forcing children to move schools rather than parents moving their children through choice. I’m sure you had your reasons and didn’t just move them for the ‘positive experience’ of moving schools.

The government isn’t forcing children to move schools. Businesses closing is, which is a risk if you send your child to school in a small business. Yet to see evidence of a school not already struggling, who hadn’t already raised fees above inflation, closing as a result of VAT.

cardibach · 21/06/2025 21:00

Another76543 · 21/06/2025 20:51

The solution is to eliminate the inequalities within the state sector. Make every state school excellent and people wouldn’t feel the need to use private. The majority of parents aren’t paying tens of thousands of pounds for the fun of it.

Yes. That is the solution. Parents with some financial, educational and potentially political influence moving their children out and forgetting about it is a contributory factor to this not happening