It’s not as simple as “want to learn” and “want to mess about”. My son wants to learn, but emotionally and developmentally he is two or three years behind his peers. What this means in year 2 is that he is constantly shouting out and getting out of his chair like a foundation age child might, and getting very frustrated because he can’t do age expected tasks like write.
if he was the only child doing this it might be ok but there are around 6 with similar behaviour, probably undiagnosed SEN, and the school has no money for TAs.
Fortunately I have fought v hard to get my son support, he has a 1:1 who is also supporting the other 5 . If I hadn’t got this the school would be absolutely stuffed.
we have a school system that just is not set up for increasing numbers of kids with SEN whose difficulties have been compounded by lockdown which has delayed them further.
I don’t know what the answer is but I would try the following:
more funding for Sen support without relying on parents getting private diagnoses or going to court
Make all schools more SEN friendly so that they can accommodate a wider range of children without spending £££
more early intervention before they start school
more realistic curriculum with more time spent on activities that are enjoyable, give a sense of achievement and develop social skills
More work focussed curriculum rather than trying to make everyone academic