In our area the local population is around 80% white British. The grammar school kids are 20 - 30% white British.
I find it interesting that the white grammar parents are very embarrassed to even mention tutoring, critical of others that do, and then insist their child is naturally gifted, with a keen interest in maths and science since age 2 (sometimes when the mother actually works at the school itself but they are not pushy at all, no😂). A lot of the other local white parents think bollocks to that, mine is just a normal kid with a regular IQ let’s not bother.
However you chat to the asian or black parents, and now lots of Eastern European parents and they are all quite open about it all. They are honest about making their kids work hard, and share details of various tutors and ways in which they’ve added ‘extra’ and pushed to get their kid ahead and in the right school. Some even help out for other in their communities if they can’t afford the tutor themselves. The openness is really refreshing whether you agree with what they are doing or not.
Of course, I’m generalising here, and there are other issues, but it’s a prevalent theme. I just really hate the people who say tutoring is evil, the ‘naturally’ clever, like my child, will rise to the top. They are actively and insidiously trying to get others to ‘stay in their lane’. Your child wouldn’t cope with a grammar. It would be detrimental to their mental health to try. Bollocks to that. They wouldn’t say it to someone of colour or born in another country. It’s class war in action, and that’s more damaging than grammar schools.