Pete:"Not affiliated with the school at all?"
Depends on what you mean by affiliated-if you mean that my children have attended a particular Waldorf School-then yes I am affiliated.
Pete:"So, is it true that black people "burn from the inside", and that they are spiritually "childlike" - as Steiner declared? Is it true that Jews have "outlived their usefulness" and should abandon "their very way of thinking"? Those MUST be spiritual truths, right?"
Val: "What is true about the nature of man, about society, about man's place in society and when do you want your children to know these truths?"
Pete:"NEVER!!!!"
Val: Never what? What truth don't you want your children exposed to ever?
Pete: "What is true about the nature of man, about society, about man's place in society" - according to STEINER. I would never want my children to learn these "truths" - because as you know, according to Steiner, a man's place in society is dependent on his skin color."
No, I don't know that. What you don't want your children exposed to, apparently, are what you consider to be falsehoods. My question was what is true and when would it be appropriate for children to learn. My children are exposed to all kinds of false statements from many sources and I correct them as I am able.
Val: "No need for you to be sorry since my awareness or lack thereof has nothing to do with you."
Pete:"Except that you are being dishonest about it. If I tell you now that Anthroposophy is based on these tenets, will you be aware of it tomorrow?"
No, I'm not. Tomorrow I will continue to be aware that you believe anthropsophy is based on these tenets.
Val: "I've never been aware that anthroposophy was based on these tenets though I am aware that you believe them to be."
Pete:"So you are aware that those ideas exist in Anthroposophy... Correct? But you deny that they are the basis of Anthroposophy. What then, would you describe as the basis of Anthroposophy. Please be specific - not something obtuse like "love" or "freedom" - What are the basic tenets of Anthroposophy?"
I have never understood there to be any basic tenets involved. If you're asking for a central idea, for me, it would be that man is a three-fold being whose consciousness evolves over time.
Pete:"If you don't know what they are, then you have no reason not to believe me when I tell you. In any case, anyone reading this will recognize you are dodging the question."
The reader is free, as you are, to make their own judgments.
Pete:"How would that be average? 4 kindergartens and 12 grades - 400 kids plus or minus. 100 kids per year is NOT the size of the graduating class."
True, but then again, zero percent is not the national or the regional average attrition rate for either Waldorf Schools or private schools.
Val: "I think your school's number would be more meaningful compared with the same statistic for other private schools in your area."
Pete:"You have reason to believe other private schools in my area have attrition rates that high? I can assure you they are not."
No, your argument would be more effective when presented with comparative data, IMO but then perhaps we have different opinions about what constitutes effective communication.
Val:"Maybe your school is an anomaly or maybe you live in a highly transient area."
Pete"Um... no. Do you require more straws to
grasp at?"
No, your school is not an anomaly?
Val:"At any rate, I think as I already mentioned, this is certainly something a prospective parent could ask when considering any private school-what is their retention rate. It's something we took a hard look at when evaluating colleges."
Pete:"Yes - and of course it helps if the schools themselves don't lie to the parents directly about this."
Are you saying that this has been your experience or the experience of other parents/prospective parents that you know? Or do you suspect and speculate that schools do this?
Val: "I think if you are "creeped out" initially by a Kindergarten as I think Anenome said she was that you wouldn't enroll your child there."
Pete:She didn't!
Right. She said she was "freaked out."
Val: "The question was what's wrong with these people that "fall for it" perhaps vulnerability?"
Pete:LYING by Waldorf perhaps?
You mean you think something along the lines of, "You just caught us on a bad day" is going to salvage an experience such as Anenome described? Parents that have a visceral repulsion to a school setting are not apt to enroll their children.
Pete:"How do they explain their views on the things I described in my previous post - late reading, vaccinations, TV and such?"
Val: "IMO, as best they can."
Pete:"Flatly LYING? That's the best they can do?"
They don't lie to me as far as I know.
Val: "We had a media talk at a monthly parent meeting at least once a year. The observable effects of media on children in the classroom was what was most often discussed. That was what I, as a parent, cared about as well as my children's behavior and well being outside of school, of course."
Pete:That's what makes you a wonderful Waldorf parent, then.
Perhaps, though I don't consider myself a wonderful Waldorf Parent or even a wonderful parent.
Pete:You are clueless about Waldorf by intention, apparently. Why on earth wouldn't you care, as a parent, that the teachers of your child believe spirits live in television sets? I guess, as they say, ignorance is bliss.
As a parent, I'm much more concerned about the content of the programing my children watch than anything that might live inside the T.V.
Val: "This impulse that you speak of did come into discussion when cyberbullying and messaging nude pictures of classmates became big in the public schools here a few years ago."
Pete:Really?
Really. There was also the issue of a parent discovering that the parental blocks on computers work only to a very limited degree.
Pete:How did that discussion go?
It seemed to me that, even in middle school, parents still sought to protect their children, in this case, from cyberbullying and pornography and were eager to understand the school's perspective.
Pete:Did Ahriman possess these public school children? Were they no longer human? Did Ahriman cause the cyberbullying?
Not as far as I know. Do you think that's what happened?
Val: "I love the turn-off T.V. week campaign and participated in it before I ever heard of Waldorf Education but it took years and was like pulling teeth to get the local Waldorf schools to adopt this program."
Pete:Well, how can you turn your TV OFF, if you're not allowed to turn it ON?
If you never turn your T.V. on then I would think that you have no need to turn it off.
Val:"It's the bottom line as I see it."
Pete:What - that Waldorf education has no value? I would agree.
That Waldorf schools as well as private schools in general have hit the "tuition wall" where the tuition spent in more and more cases exceeds the perceived value of the education.
Pete:"Oh, there's no question. If you are an Anthroposophist, or are in alignment with Anthroposophy and Steiner's views, Waldorf education is for you... absolutely."
Val: "I don't agree."
Pete:Really? Then where DO Anthroposophists send their kids to school?
Really. In my experience-to schools of all sorts for a variety of reasons. Likewise, a critic of Waldorf Education could have their children enrolled in a Waldorf School.
Pete:From what you said above, Val, it apparently describes you. You claim you don't want to know the deeper stuff behind Waldorf... so you're what Waldorf schools call a "drop off" parent - you drop your kids off and trust they will get a good education. Either that, or you are again being dishonest about your interest in Anthroposophy. If you have gone to the trouble of educating yourself on Waldorf, why do you seem so reluctant to share with us what you know? BTW, I've taken a peek at your Waldorf school's website. Hopefully you're not getting your information from there...
I don't recall ever making such a claim unless you think whatever crap's residing inside my T.V. is deep stuff but I work hard in many ways to ensure that my children receive an excellent education which they do. One of those ways was educating myself on Waldorf, as you put it, but I wonder if there's a difference in your mind between being educated and being informed and how one knows if he/she has been sufficiently educated and/or informed.
Pete:This parent pledge is from the parent handbook - note the TV pledge at the end:
I also don't recall stating the name of my children's school on this list nor our place of residence which can be gleaned from the information you provided. Did you presume to provide this information in spite of my anonymity? If so, I consider this very disrespectful to say the least.