Oh Sprocketgirl!
To read the Steiner threads on here would take an age.
As a family who left after three yrs and three kids at various stages, I say beware the exterior! They are beautiful places, the people are ostenibly gentle kind and lovely.
Not the true picture.
They are based entirely and completely on Steiner's spiritual science called anthroposophy, which is abouit reincarnating the child, ready for the time when spirtual beings manifest themselves, and those who have had spiritual education will be able to communicate clairvoyantly.
His version of reincarnation includes a spiritual hierarchy which puts dark skin at the bottom.( The schools aren't overtly racist, but as Steiner is their guru, and he believes this, it is a central part of anthroposophic belief)
Personally, we had covert racial issues, hich put the lid on our decision to pull out our kids.Along with bullying- a past life issue, intervening would interupt their karmic path, our youngest having to use her right hand- left handedness shows karmic weakness.....
The children are bored to death by the rigid teaching system, and copying from the board, no other visual or aural stimulation ( one teacher for seven years is terrible if the teacher is crap, boring even if the teacher is good...
If this is ok with you fine.