Your posts are not very good PR for the school @Nowand4ever and @Floreathlon. The pastoral care at Winchester is shocking, if you had a son there you would know that. We didn't send our two other sons there so I know exactly what excellent pastoral care in a boarding school looks like.
You have to be very organized and make plans to leave in MP if you intend to leave after GCSES ,but I do wish had.
Many parents are promised change just as we were , this always leads to nothing. A surprising number of boys leave in the first two years, you will know this of course. When my son started 6th form and it was clear nothing was changing , it then a case of trying to make the best of it. The lack of respect for the headmaster and some other dons is something to see, again you will know this.
The aggressive tone of your posts are not unsurprising, it's what parents come to expect when questioning anything. We made a great choice for our two other sons ,it was definitely a learning experience for us.
Nobody believes that ' Winchester is a bastion of liberal education' , you need to stop being so silly. Parents who sent their sons to Winchester are looking first and foremost for good pastoral care ,at least we were. Staff turnover is far too high, this doesn't surprise me.You will be well aware of this of course. Staff often complain to boys about the priorities of the school so it's understandable when they more on.
You only have to look at how the school managed the announcement to introduce girls and day pupils (day pupils was particularly unsettling of international parents) to see how little regard they give to parents. A email during lockdown after it was in the morning newspaper! I believe that the introduction of girls boarding in 2024 is not going to plan.