“Some schools have fashion jet set type parents, showing up in supercars with a blonde in dolce gabbana.”
Hehe, that sounds quite funny. I do think though that all the top boarding schools would take the children of “well known persons” aka celebrities if the child is good enough to keep up with the pace of the school. It is good & free marketing for them.
I think, as regards WinColl, because of the way it is, evident when touring the school, it actively puts a certain type of parent and child off, even applying. I don’t think it is the school saying no to them. The same applies to Westminster. Some children are very intelligent but want to be “cool” and they may be put off by the atmosphere at certain schools and the general feel of the children already there. So there is that aspect too.
At the end of the day, a very bright child will have many options and they and their parents need to pick a school where they will fit in, thrive and be happy. And that will always be the most important thing. I think by Year 7/8 most children will be able to make their own decision in that regard. I think it is very important that parents are not swayed by cliches, other parents, rumours etc. Financial considerations are very relevant to a family, of course. However, if they are not (either because fees are easily payable or there is a substantial bursary) I would really let the child go see for themselves again (if necessary) and let them decide.