I read the Times article. It does seem like discrimination against Private School children....the research clearly shows that kids with the grades being asked for by Oxbridge perform equally well regardless of whether or not they come from State or Private schools so its not like they are in any way inferior...I agree with the headmaster of Kings College School when he laments the fact that private school kids who have never achieved less than a 9 or an A in public exams can't get into Oxbridge because they have come from a private school.
They didn't choose to go to private school - their parents sent them.
I realise that some state schools are awful and some kids come from challenging backgrounds - in my mind that's a whole different debate.
But I don't see the difference between a child from a private school, one from a grammar school and one from an excellent comprehensive school. Abuse, neglect, bereavement and divorce still happen to kids who go to private school. Being rich doesn't make you immune to mental health problems. Bullying still exists in private schools. Distractions like drugs, alcohol and parties exist in private schools. Plus I am not sure that ALL private school kids have it so easy. Here in London actually getting an 11+ place at one of these super selective private schools comes with a huge amount of pressure and hours and hours of preparation (read some of the mumsnet threads if you don't believe me) - imagine what that feels like for an 10/11 year old who would rather be playing with their mates. They then get to these highly selective schools (sometimes commuting up to an hour each way to get there) and they have the pressure to get perfect grades (sitting on average more GCSEs and A Levels than the average state school kid) while juggling 101 extracurricular clubs, playing 2 musical instruments, playing competitive sport every weekend, doing their Duke of Edinburgh/CCF, participating in charity work ....all the while feeling quite ordinary and unremarkable because they are surrounded by kids who are also all overachieving. Then they get to the end of it all, achieve a set of perfect grades and get told "sorry - you went to private school and therefore all your achievements are worthless because your parents paid for them".
In comparison, I came from a happy family, went to an average comprehensive school with a real mixed bag of kids. I was in all the "top sets" so never had to deal with loads of disruptive behaviour and as far as I remember the teaching was pretty good. Had a great social life. Did my GCSEs and A-Levels and did very well and basked in the glory of being "one of the clever ones". Then I happily trotted off to a RG University. I think I had it pretty easy compared to some of these private school kids I see.
Blame the parents, but don't take it out on the kids.