I live in city with no grammars.
When DC went to secondary: rich friends were 'selected' for private. Other friends were selected for religious school (with free bus/train passes), despite parents faking it. Two next door neighbor friends were selected for the best school in city, it was just coincidence their parents had chosen that time to move to millionaires row (they could only afford the mortgage for a few years before they moved away). Believe it or not a few friends actively choose the shite school because parent(s) didn't want to be hassled about homework. One neighbor got selected for a football academy school. We got selected for a 'good' comprehensive because of my sharp elbowed appeal.
Essentially I had no choice.
My DC is in a 1400 pupil 'good' comprehensive, set in the top class of 8 core academic subjects for everything and essentially learning nothing because there are only 6 other kids at the same level. The school cant do anything despite me asking, repeatedly (see other posts).
Why is it wrong to have a school that selects for at least minimum one class of gifted pupils, so that its possible to provide an education that allows bright children to progress at the rate they are capable of? Do we not want to have a, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg or Elon Musk in this country?
I can't get a million pound mortgage, afford private or degrade myself enough to pray in the pews. In primary I was told "wait until secondary they will have more advanced stuff there". In secondary I was told, "dont worry university will challenge them". Maybe it will but what a waste of 14 years of state schooling!
The only answer is some new partially selective schools.
Does anyone else have a better solution, other than the fantasy of "lets make all schools better"?