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How to thank teachers

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kmg1 · 10/01/2004 20:11

The 'teachers' thread has left me feeling really fed up.

My boys attend a fantastic (state) school, and the staff there are ALL absolutely BRILLIANT. I want to thank them and encourage them and make them realise they are appreciated by me. I try to do this - obviously we sent Christmas prezzies and cards with notes in ...

Clearly teachers get some satisfaction from seeing the progress the children make, but I hate to think that my boys' teachers might think that we regard them in the way some posters on here regard their teachers.

So ... on Thursday ds1 came home with a little leaflet about the forthcoming term's work (Year 2). And it was fantastic - brief, but extremely informative, and very well put together. Both dh and I commented how helpful it is. ... Also on the first day of term he had written a book review for her (unrequested), and she read it, and wrote 3 or 4 really inspiring sentences for him about it, and about books/reading in general - on the first day of term - I'm sure she had plenty of other things to do with her time ... I don't see ds1's teacher at all during the week unless I seek her out specially. Should I seek her out specially to thank her and comment, or is that too creepy? I could put a note in his reading book, but that seems even more formal and uncomfortable.

So you teachers out there - do you get thanked/encouraged enough/at all by parents. What do you think?

OP posts:
popsycal · 11/01/2004 13:17

fisil - fair point on your PS
should we include tech in that??

hmb · 11/01/2004 13:23

Fisil, which collage and when were you there? And I've had the same comment made to me!

popsycal · 11/01/2004 13:29

fisil and hmb - i know several people who went to oxford too 1993 - 1996....

fisil · 11/01/2004 13:30

Anonymity? Were you there too? e-mail me.

hmb · 11/01/2004 13:39

Oh, depress me, why don't you???! I'm much older than that!!!

popsycal · 11/01/2004 13:43

i did take a year out before i went.....

hmb · 11/01/2004 13:49

salt on the wound!

popsycal · 11/01/2004 13:49
Wink
fisil · 11/01/2004 13:56

I'm the same year group as pops, I'm afraid. I'll be 30 this month!

DP was there too (and he's very very old), when were you there, hmb?

popsycal · 11/01/2004 13:58

fisil - you may well know some folks that i knew....
will you reveal your degree....??

fisil · 11/01/2004 14:06

modern history

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:06

1980-1987.......runs crying from the computer!

popsycal · 11/01/2004 14:06

actually what am i on about
oxford is HUGE!!

popsycal · 11/01/2004 14:07

aaaawh - hmb !!!
don't cry!

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:07

Curse the pair of you for being wet behing the ears infants! Biochemistry and the Psychology department.

popsycal · 11/01/2004 14:08

ps THAT thread is nearly out of the active conversations list!

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:13

Oh, it will come back....we don't deserve andy better

popsycal · 11/01/2004 14:14

it's gone, it's gone!

fisil · 11/01/2004 14:15

Which is good news, Pops. I was at ds' b'day bask yesterday afternoon, so missed the bun fight, but glad I did, as it was pretty nasty. Whoever said it was right, othe professions don't get the same treatment.

Well, dp would've been a fresh faced fresher as you were on the way out!

Oxford is huge, but it is very easy to identify people. There were only a handful of people doing history in my year at my college, in fact as far as I know I'm the only mum amongst my bunch (and one dad).

But then again, you can get too paranoid...

fisil · 11/01/2004 14:16

1980 - 1987 - did you do a doctorate?

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:18

I posted our 2 births to the collage newsletter. It made a change from the more usual @I made partner this year'. My mate posted saying she was the first collage single mother!

And the typos in my posts will show that I didn't go to the Ox and Cow! I'd be able to type if I had.

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:19

Yes, but didn't get it, the reasech was crap and I bottled out before I had the viva. I staid in reserch and did some work I was quite pleased with, but by that time I was traveling round britain with dh. Did a few other job and then got into teaching, which I love! Couldn't of done it when younger, I was too much of a prat.

fisil · 11/01/2004 14:23

I'm very impressed - I want to do a doctorate, but it seems so big!

At Oxford I was invited to a party with a "dress as your childhood ambition" theme. So I went heavily pg. I don't care whether it was my childhood ambition or not, it was worth it for the look on all their faces (and I found the bump quite convenient for resting my pint on)

popsycal · 11/01/2004 14:31

fisil - the people i knew best at oxford were (and i will probably get told off for posting ufll names though i rarely see them now...)
tom coombs, peter flint, johanna johnstone

hmb · 11/01/2004 14:50

Oh God, its back! Supportive post from Donnie, but it is back.