I doubt many kids from your secondary modern applied through UCCA, so you may not be quite as clued up
My SM did not have a sixth form. In fact only 7 stayed on the fifth form which was still optional when I was 15/16. RoSLA ( thats raising of the school leaving age) to 16 didnt happen until well afterI left. The schol then closed down as it happens, amalgamated with another school to make a comprehensive . The poor grammar school suffered for that but I digress about how it was then.
I was by then in a top school ( having shown the local grammar I had so coveted all my earlier life a big boot!) The most academic pupils in the area went to sixth form in my sixth form and all of us applied through UCCA. Half of us were Oxbridge candidates and a large number got in. Oxford was always more popular that Cambridge. I am not saying I am all knowldegeable but I was there. I am not talking from history or books about this.
I would not disrespect your experience yellowtip, why do you feel the need to try and correct mine?
You are a parent, true, though not a hugely experienced one, since your only DC is aged 6. There's every possiblity that he may go wild, rebel vigorously against a suffocating prescription of what he's expected to be and disrupt class after class after class. I've found I never know what's about to come round the corner with my own DC: be prepared!
There is an equal (possibly greater) possibility he will not.
You seem to have an unusual idea of my parenting. I dont know where it is coming from. I may only have one DC but I have had thousands through my hands in a lifetime of teaching ( Sorry about the Mr Chips thing again) .
There are factors which lead to "wild child" behaviour just as there are factors whjich lead to disruptive pupils in school. They are mostly home factors. My DS is in a low risk category on those scores, despite what you think.
I work on probabilites. It seems to me you just want my DS to turn out a wrong un so you can say "I told you so". You may have to wait a long time to see if you are right - maybe even a time after MN isnt here.
So let it go. I dont tell you how to bring your DC up or that I think they will be rubbish in their lives do I?