Quick I am sorry you made some assumption which I am not sure are supported by the words I wrote. I am interested because I have, in the past, worked on widening access to Oxbridge and I retain a strong interest and links.
I said "perceived" because although I would not describe myself as a relativist, I am aware that people hold different views and that I am not the abiter of what is "right thinking". Nor would I attempt to act as spokesperson for "any right thinking person"
I am a possible example of a "common nouveau riche" by dint of my husband's success in an MC law firm and a powerful multi-national. I am council house born and raised. We both know that we are no cleverer than many of our friends "back home" who have not had material or adademic success. I am interested in why that is. I am fully aware that there are many definitions of a successful life apart from the material but some who would like the opportunity are not achieving it.
Due to my partner's position and my past work in academia/education, among our associates are people, both in business/industry and in the sphere of public service, who are able to make a difference at policy level and at a practical level and are making steps - though this depends a bit on the area/business. A few years ago when younger, a now well known "hot one hundred law partner" friend was told by a senior partner in an MC firm to "lose that "accent" thing (he actually stated the name of the area of origin of my friend)you've got going on. It won't do you any good around here." He is at another MC firm now ata very senior level so didn't fail because of it, but he might have?
My feeling is that the recession has caused quite a blip in this progression, we are talking about. So individually, there are lots of success stories, ours being one, but as a whole, there is still, as Blueshoes points out, a way to go. I think it is really important we address it and are aware of it.