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Rewards/Stickers for Behaviour in Class

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CupcakesHay · 12/08/2010 10:05

Hi

Can anyone help? I'm training to become teacher and currently planning a research project on rewards used to help good behaviour in classroom. This is my last project before i defer for a year cos of upcoming baby!

I don't live in Uk otherwise I'd ask friends, so I was hoping someone here might be able to help me.

Do they use rewards at the primary school your DC goes to? Do you think they help? Does your DC think they help?

I'm just trying to get a bit of perspective on the whole thing before i start really. :)

Any thought would be really helpful! Thanks!

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countydurhamlass · 12/08/2010 15:40

in my ds' school they use them. they give them out at the end of the week. when a child has does really well at something or achieved a goal they get a certificate. it can be for anything from sitting quietly on the story mat or reading. my ds is always really happy about getting one.

IndigoBell · 12/08/2010 16:25

My school uses them - and I think they are a really bad idea.

Kids will be motivated to get the sticker - rather then being motivated to do the work. I.e. you want them to read, play nicely etc because they want to - not because you'll give them some praise and a sticker.

If they get stickers every time they do something good, eventually they'll stop wanting to do what they used to like doing if they don't get a sticker for it....

Basically - stickers work at controlling behavior, which is why parents and teachers use them - but they don't work in terms of getting the child to be independent and self motivated. So they cause damage

(Ideas courtesy of Alfie Kohn and Unconditional Parenting)

Also - my eldest son who is 9 still gets stickers and he finds them really patronizing.

CupcakesHay · 12/08/2010 18:58

Thanks Countydurhamlass.

IndigoBell - I must admit, i spent 3 weeks at a school - and kind of thought the same thing. I remember a kid doing a great bit of work, and me telling them - and then they asked for a sticker on their chart. I also noticed an inconsistency between teachers - which is kind of why I picked this project.

Surely they must have some plus points??

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BellsaRinging · 12/08/2010 19:00

ds (who is 5) loves getting stickers, and they also have a star of the week. I think it's because it's soomething tangeable he can bring home and show off.

countydurhamlass · 12/08/2010 19:08

kids don't get them all the time for doing good things, the stickers are more of an achievement thing, ds got one for using his scissors properly (he has fine motor skill problems) so although it sounds trivial it is actually a big thing for him.

benandoli · 12/08/2010 19:13

they work if used consistently and if they are used to reward something which the child perceives they have done well. At my childs school it goes in fits and starts so the benefit is lost really. I am a teacher and I have used blank stickers where I write on them specifically what the child has done well. This personalises it and also helsp give more information to parents.

IndigoBell · 12/08/2010 19:21

I don't think rewards / stickers have any plus points (for 'normal' kids - there are always going to be exceptions)

You are much better interacting with the child about their work ie 'What have you painted? Why did you make the grass purple?' rather than saying 'well done - here's a sticker'

Bellsa - yes your DS loves getting the stickers - but that doesn't mean they're in any way good for him.

Wouldn't you prefer it if he came home and told you how he created the most fabulous art and craft project, rather than coming home and told you he got a sticker for sitting quietly on the carpet?

Your son wants you to be proud of him. But you're proud of him regardless of how he does at school - and that's the message you need to convey to him.

Reward and punishment ( stickers and time out or losing playtime ) are widely used because they are very effective at getting children to do what you want them to do. But that should not be your goal! Your goal as a teacher is for them to learn - and to continue to want them to learn.

Read Alfie Kohn :)

IndigoBell · 12/08/2010 19:27

countydurhamlass - stickers (rewards) occassionally for something that is exceptionally good (ie using scissors if you have problems) is fine. I was talking about the endless stream of stickers that my school gives out.

Someone on here said they can always spot the worst kid in the class - they're the one with stickers plastered all over them.

benandol - they don't work if they are used consisitantly and used to reward something the child perceives they have done well. They make the child do things for the reward, rather than doing them because they enjoy them. They make the child value your judgement above their own.

MrsWobbleTheWaitress · 12/08/2010 19:33

Read Alfie Kohn about rewards and punishment and how even rewards can be harmful to children.

CupcakesHay · 12/08/2010 20:31

Super - I'll get that book. Anyone else recommend any books. I'm worried cos I need to give pre-project details and mention which key texts I'll be looking at - but I live abroad (DH works for Embassy in Syria) so I don't have access to library til I get back...

So if anyone can recommend key texts to me.... or ideas of where to find anymore ideas i'd be VERY grateful - trying to find stuff online is nightmare! :)

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IndigoBell · 12/08/2010 21:05

As well as 'punished by rewards' Alfie Kohn wrote 'Unconditional Parenting' which is the only one of his books I've read.

juuule · 12/08/2010 21:14

www.naturalchild.org/jan_hunt/rewards.html The Trouble with Rewards]]

QuantaCosta · 12/08/2010 21:27

My son's kindergarten has 'golden time'. I think it's a period of time (poss an hour)on a Friday afternoon when they can do something fun. If they misbehave they lose 5 mins of golden time (although they can earn it back).

They are also in houses (teams) and get house points. They don't seem to do the sticker thing although occasionally DS2 has come home with a sticker on his jumper which he usually insits is removed immediately and binned (don't ask me why). He doesn't seem impressed by stickers.

Generally seems to work as they are all pretty welbehaved.

In Junior school also has house points but each term they are given some sort of goal to achieve by the end of term. they then have an achievement assmebly at the end of term where all those who have achieved their goals get a certificate. not sure how much effect that has day to day but DS1 is always very pleased and proud when he gets a certificate.

IndigoBell · 12/08/2010 21:48

Yes, Golden Time is a very common form of reward and punishment used by schools.

Quanta - "Generally seems to work as they are all pretty welbehaved." This is my point. You are judging the wrong thing. Reward and punishment will be succesful at getting the kids to behave - but that is not the goal of school. It is to get the kids to learn, and to like learning, and to be happy etc. So you can't say 'seems to work' unless you think that golden time is helping your child achieve the real goals you and the school have for your child.

If your main goal is for your child to be well behaved, then you are right - it is working.

I'm not saying that you want your kid to be naughty - just that you don't want them to be good becasue they'll get golden time if they're good. You want them to be well behaved because that is the right way to behave.

cybilliberty · 12/08/2010 21:52

I like to send little notes home to parents saying what their child has done particularly well that day. Stickers are great at the time (for the child) but they forget why they were given them

SE13Mummy · 12/08/2010 23:43

As a teacher myself I use all sorts of things to reward and recognise children's behaviour, effort, achievement. Stickers are just one of those things so it wouldn't be possible to state that any one of them in isolation was the cause of improved/otherwise behaviour.

The idea behind stickers is of operant conditioning - if a reward is given it will increase the frequency of a behaviour. In schools the long-term aim/hope is that eventually a child will want to engage in a particular behaviour because it is intrinsically rewarding to them but the stickers/whatever are a stepping stone on the path to that goal. If you do a search for work on ABA you may find some useful information about the use of rewards in learning.

Personally I find that all children (I'm talking aged 4-11) respond when they have been recognised and I would far rather my classroom was a happy place where children were rewarded for the 'right' thing, than a place where I spent all my time highlighting what they shouldn't do. In my classroom children can earn raffle tickets for all sorts of things be that being polite/kind, sweeping up without being asked, waiting patiently, reminding me about something etc. etc. These go into a box and, at the end of the week, two are drawn and those children get to choose a prize (gel pen, rubber, sparkly pencil etc). The raffle ticket itself is a tangible reward but offers greater (kind of!) possibilites. I also give out team stars related to co-operative working (winning team get to choose a prize from the box too) and sometimes I give stickers. The stickers I give say, "ask me why I'm wearing this sticker" and I am always very clear about the reasons for giving a sticker. The feedback from the children (via anecdotal reports and also school council) is that all these systems are appreciated and all the more so when they are implemented consistently across the school as was the case in my previous school where we made it part of the good behaviour policy.

It's important to remember that the majority of children in a class do work hard and behave themselves yet it can be easy to overlook them and over-reward the child who struggles to behave. If a teacher makes a point of rewarding those who consistently do the right thing it will send a message to those who don't that that is what is needed in order to be rewarded (read up on DRO - direct reinforcement of other behaviours), it is often more powerful for a child to see the correct behaviour in another child than it is to be told by an adult what to do e.g. "X, that's a raffle ticket for lining up so sensibly".

Oh, and I make it very clear that anyone who asks for a reward doesn't need it... I do however sometimes give them out (usually raffle tickets) if another child, not the best friend, comes and tells me about something brilliant another has done - children are surprisingly good at encouraging each other towards rewards, especially if it's someone who needs it more than others.

I dislike 'golden time' because children who need incentives to behave need something rather more immediate and those who behave anyway don't really gain anything by having golden time once a week if it's timetabled anyway. Tickcharts, stars, raffle tickets, stickers - all work some times for some children but they need to be used with thought and as part of something bigger.

I may not have explained myself very clearly but I do think that a well-designed and thoughtful consquences (both positive and negative) system can work wonders in classrooms but they must be linked and logical.

IndigoBell · 13/08/2010 10:55

SE13Mummy - do you never find that kids get demotivated because they did behave well and didn't get a raffle ticket? Or because they got loads of raffle tickets but didn't get a prize? Or because they did get a raffle ticket but they weren't doing anything more than being normal?

Surely you can highlight the behavior you would like without attaching any rewards to it?

I'm concerned that rewards are far more likely in the long term to demotivate rather than motivate.

mummytime · 13/08/2010 11:31

Stickers are good, when they ensure the teacher gives attention for good work. You could do the same without, but a smiley face in a book or a sticker aid the teacher to remember to positively praise and notice good work. I much prefer the little teacher ones, rather than the big "headteacher" ones.

With the headteacher ones, it can be a reward for past bad behaviour e.g. Sam is normally a pain is good for a week and gets one. The top and bottom children can get them disproportionately, top always do good work, bottom need encouraging. Finally it can be time for Jason to get one, so teachers try to spot a reason for Jason to get one; this is when they are handed out evenly so everyone gets 2 a year, and Jason is average all around.

I have also had to tell teachers that one of my kids had never got a head teacher one.

Also in reception one of my kids came home everyday for a week with a "I've bumped my head sticker" as she so loved having stickers.

IndigoBell · 13/08/2010 12:22

MummyTime - why do you think stickers are good?

Why does a child need someone to tell them they've done good work? Shouldn't they be able to judge that themselves? What if they haven't done good work and they get a sticker anyway? What if they have done good work but their definition of good is different to the teachers?

Why do you need a sticker to get attention? Wouldn't it be better if the teacher spoke to the child about their work - without judging it? e.g. Why did you choose this word? What were you feeling when this happened?

mummytime · 13/08/2010 12:41

Okay! Good work should be a child doing what they are asked to do, so will vary from location to location. If a teacher is focussing on good handwriting, then a child who tries hard with their handwriting should be praised. If it is imaginative writing then it should be the content.

If a teacher doesn't praise good work then there is a danger they are not assessing it either. If they don't assess then they are not assessing whether they (the teacher) has expressed what they are looking for clearly enough.

On the other hand everyone needs praise and recognition. If I spend 6 hours making a birthday cake and no-one admires it, I will spend an hour crying in the toilets, and will probably never try again. A lot of that attention and praise can be verbal, but unless you are a student teacher (or OFSTED are in) it is unlikely you will have someone there to watch you and point out that you are missing people with your praise. Using a sticker or some other sign, helps a teacher ensure they look at everyones work, and praise those who have tried hard/show improvement etc.

If you are asking those questions you are also giving attention, which is great. In Primary school you may if you keep careful records be able to spend time with each child each day, which is great. You could use stickers as part of that.

Personally my children have performed significantly better whenever they have been in classes with teachers who use stickers liberally. I think having teachers who use stickers rarely could well be worse than not using them at all.

I also recommend star charts for parents, but not really as a way to reward a child but a way to help the parent "catch" the child being good.

I also think some children find self-assessment very very hard. I have one child who will destroy a very good piece of work for the tiniest blemish. Another who does not understand the self-assessment criteria and so is struggling with GCSE. All of my children are perfectionists who are far more critical of their work than any outsider, and a sticker helps a lot.

juuule · 13/08/2010 12:43

IndigoBell, I've agreed with your previous posts but have a bit of a niggle about your last one where you ask
"Why does a child need someone to tell them they've done good work? Shouldn't they be able to judge that themselves?"
I think there are times when feedback (for anyone) is useful or just nice.
For those children who do know that they've done good work sometimes, if they've gone further than usual for them, then a bit of recognition is nice.
For those children who are unsure of whether they've done well or not then some guidance and feedback is probably helpful.

However, I don't really understand the point of stickers.

ragged · 13/08/2010 12:43

Stickers are used in KS1 at our school.
House Point system replaces it in KS2.
I don't perceive any drawbacks with stickers or HPs (I have 3 primary-age DC, 1 good student, one model student, one pain-in-the-arse).
The teachers describe the stickers as GodSends.
DS is one of the naughty/awkward pupils. He needs chivying along. It helps motivate him to do what he's asked, just to get the sticker, rather than lose face by admitting the teacher was right all along.
I wouldn't dream of taking such a helpful management tool away from his teachers.
But DD (the model student) proudly wore her stickers, too. DS1 (merely good student) was indifferent.

There seem to be some big-time Alfie Kohn fans on this thread. :)

juuule · 13/08/2010 12:44

mummytime, "If I spend 6 hours making a birthday cake and no-one admires it, I will spend an hour crying in the toilets, and will probably never try again."

You are kidding about that, aren't you?

juuule · 13/08/2010 12:46

"All of my children are perfectionists who are far more critical of their work than any outsider, and a sticker helps a lot."

How does the sticker help?

UptoapointLordCopper · 13/08/2010 12:53

juuule - great article you linked to. Thanks.