Constant hell

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So I have written a couple of posts on mumsnet as I find it a place where I can vent.
my husband left a few months ago, left me telling me in front of my daughter. He told me he had been messaging someone else. Anyway, the healing become a bit easier when I found he cleared the bank account (he’d been scammed over £1000) which keeps a roof over his children’s heads for a prostitute! I don’t know how my life has got to this, 6 months ago we were a normal family. His daughter found the messages on his phone. Also the other woman doesn’t seem interested in him - hence the prostitute which all happened on a Sunday morning!!
I just want to know that this shit gets easier for me…he’s out living the dream but I seem to be the one left with financial worry, children worries, moving on worries and even where I am going to live worries. I just can’t see a way out from this mess.

That is so awful and you have my deepest sympathies. Time is your friend and each day is a step forward and away from what he has done to you. It does get better, significantly so after the first 'anniversary'.

It’s the most horrific thing I have ever suffered after 20 years of not knowing anything else and to be treat this way is awful. I loved him so much but I’m scared of everything at the moment.

Well can you take him to County Court?
Not expensive
Then see a solicitor

He sounds like a bad person, so you will be much happier after everything settles. You can do this. I'm sorry you're feeling so sad though x

Where has he run off to? I suspect he won't be looking too smug in a month from now..

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/divorce_separation/5114650-things-ive-noticed-since-the-divorce

It's almost certainly going to get so much better, honestly. My exh pulled out all the stops while he was leaving. He's almost entirely someone else's problem now.