STBX left 7 months ago for OW. Of course they were "just friends" and got together after we seperated.....
The children met her after 4 weeks - l had no say in this. STBX and OW are moving in together in June but basically live together now so the children have a lot of contact with her. Stbx also leaves them with her when he goes out. They are all going on holiday abroad in May.
But l haven't met her.... well not since all the above happened.
I met her when they were "just friends" as they were running/cycling partners.... but not since.
I have asked to meet her. Nothing intense - just a hello when stbx is dropping the children off after his contact weekend. But she either doesnt come or they park down the road so l don't see her.
I just think that we need to meet to get that first awkward meeting out the way because we will at some see each other.
AIBU to want to meet her. STBX thinks l am as it's "too soon"