ahem, how do you help the man last longer?

[eversoslightlyembaressed]

sorry to ask in here for help/tips but any would be great fully received. DP has admitted he knows he can't last very long (is long enough for me but i'd like to help him last a little longer) and of course for myself, but mainly him.

tia.

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LMAO!!!

Squeeze his nuts (but not too hard)!

Get him to 'take himself in hand' before the event.

Distract him - talk to him, ask him an irrelevant question, do something unexpected. Change your rhythm (slow down, not speed up).

Surely if you have kids to keep you busy you want it to be as quick as possible!!

Try wearing less make-up, big pants and putting on a stone or two! Also mentioning that you must remember to make DDs pack lunch just at the vinegar stroke should slow him down a bit.

Other things to mention just as he's about to ya know....

...ceiling needs painting
....my piles are still bad love, did I tell you
....etc etc

LMAO @ flum, no no children are about at the time - are picking our moments at the minute.

pc - have tried that and he gets impatient, also tried stopping and doing various other things but he got a little annoyed so it didn't go down too well.

put a picture of your mum on the bedroom cieling.

do they really help? have only used the vibrating his/hers ones before haven't tried just a band one before.

Just before he is about to go off, grab bell end, squeeze firmly on the head where it attaches to the string (underneath), it will go slightly soft.

Carry on doing stuff, repeating all night/as necessary

By the time you let him explode he will erm........go nuts

oh good lord

grip with pelvic floor muscles and he pasue for a moment

oh used to work for dp

never tried that either! lol.

I am a reg btw but am well embarrassed! lol.

exdp that should be

i get too muddled with all this exh exdp bf stuff

domnt know who the hell i am talking about

Ask him if he thinks the Bank of England will cut interest rates when they meet next Thursday and whether he thinks the decision will be unanimous.

Say "You're not as big as your dad, did I mention that before?"

Call him the wrong name, like Edith.

Punch him in the face. Then laugh.

I'm so sorry, none of that is helpful

have you tried lube that has a mild VERY mild numbing effect. the bloody name is escaping me - its also found inside some dure condoms. numbs the sensation a bit - enough to help them hold on.

sorry to be personal but is it only like this with penetration or can he go for longer when masturbating?

My DP has the same problem... form his point of view. It usually involves him going over the edge because he
...thinks i am too sexy
....it's too nice
....not telling you...

TMI alert!!!!

We have found slowing down, him stopping moving (I apparently can move if i like)... and just talking to each other... not too sexy talk..just talk... Loooong foreplay and slow entry (oh dear ..

do you use condoms? They seem to desensitize ( sp? ) him a bit too. Hope this helps.

wee he's the same either way tbh.

I don't mind am laughing at the suggestions! have tried pretty much everything I can think of!