OK this is a serious question

[babs73]

and I am asking on here because more men post here (well hopefully). Namechanger btw.

DH has been considering having a penis enlargement for a while now - he is VERY consious about his size but I however do not have a problem with it at all. He seems to think I am not satisfied by him but I am, its just I can't achieve an orgasm EVERY time but I am sure a lot of women can't either fgs.

He has been to his doctor about this & the doc tried to talk him out of it. He is willing to fly to the states to get it done as he goes there often anyway with work, its cheaper too apparently.

Please give me advice on how to talk him out of this, he really is deadly serious about it. How can I make him understand that size is not that important. Plus I would hate him to go through unecessary pain.

This is not a wind up & if I can't ask on MN where can I ask? This is the only site I post on.

Please be reassured that I do not orgasm

every time, nowhere near it. Its just not

all that important to me. I often prefer

the journey to the destinationtrying

to make my husband understand is another

matter, he takes it as a personal failure,

so I can understand where you are coming

from. My husbands got a massive one(not

boasting on his behalf)and men often expect

its like a magic wand, one swish

and...poof! Instant orgasm. But that is

such crap.

BABS!!! -How big IS it

Any pictures on your profile ?

He is like anyone obsessing about a part of them that they are unhappy about isn't he? It is exactly the same as a woman obessed with weight loss when there is nothing wrong with her. Thing is, there is bugger all you can do about it in my opinion - reason probaly will have no affect at all if he wants to do it - unless he is just trailing his cloak for re-assurance (see does my bum look big in this for details!)

Did any of you see that programme on several months ago called penis (something). The guy doing the documentary had a 3 inch penis and went around interviewing people (men and women) on what size an ideal penis should be. It was interesting. Most people said around 8 inches was the ideal.

So how big is IT then OP?