My wife and I had separated, and we were going thru a divorce, I have moved out.
We have 3 children 24, 18, 8 years old.
My eldest is fine with me, 18 doesn't want to talk to me, my 8 old I'm told is scared of me, which I do not belive as with all my children I got on very well with them all. I believe they have been drip fed poison about me by my wife and her family, I've not seen them for the best part of a year.
Last week my wife died in a tragic accident at home after falling down the stairs and my 18 year old daughter found her when she got up for work.
They are currently residing with my in laws. Who do not want me to go to there house to see them.
I know am now there legal Guardian. But I don't know the best way to move forward as they have just lost their daughter and the kids have lost their mum.
On a side note, what should I do about the maintenance I am paying into my 18 year old bank account?