I really need advice on how to handle the police and if I can actually get them to stop this.
I was awarded a non molestation order in April 19 against my ex father to my oldest child, he doesn't have contact due to a nai to child resulting in a black eye, ss dreamed him a risk and he refused to engage with the risk assessment so it was no contact. He then turned on me, it's my fault and so smashed up my property, threatened me and my family and we had to move.
the last few months my ex has been increasingly becoming erratic.
There has been a few public postings online about me, using my full name and asking people to pass messages to my kids at school. He put a recorder on his daughter while she met me to see her brother and then said he knows where I live and will bring me a surprise (I don't think he does know where I live and was just trying to scare us) but yesterday myself and my husband received death threats after he made fake profiles and sent messages to himself basically making my husband out to be a "nonce" his words, it's clear as day these messages are fake, but he posted these all over my husbands business page and since given out my husbands number for his friends to call us at all hours telling me and my husband "I'll slit your necks" "you're going to die" "burn bitches"
I went to the police yet again, the last few times they haven't been at all helpful, and even blamed me, after someone saw a post of him getting increasingly wound up about me and started saying some worrying things, they text me and said they think he's coming to my house (old house) but I was told by the police not to let people wind me up and stop reading these text messages. Of course I going to read texts coming to my phone. I reported the transphobic abuse (he said some vile things) he posted about my step dad, but they said as my step dad hasn't seen it (thankfully) it's not a crime. Again this was sent to me by someone else.
But now he's made direct contact and we've got the death threats I thought now they'll do something, but if they just did something 2 months ago we wouldn't be here.
But I'm still waiting for them to come and see me it's been 32 hours since I originally went to the station, I've waited in all afternoon today like I was asked but got a call to ask when I'm available, I told them I had an appointment but that's was "miscommunicated" I was told they come out in order of risk and vulnerability so I'll just have to wait, they might be available tomorrow morning .. 🙄
I'm now thinking this isn't going to get dealt with, they don't seem interested in the fact I'm worried sick an absolute mess and really think we're going to die soon, my husbands phone is going mad, and it's his business phone, we've turned it off now. I'm numb and don't see a way out, with no actual help from people I thought would protect us. I'm scared my children are in the house and I just don't know how to make the police do something?
What do I do?