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MaryGreenhill · 30/08/2025 17:19

Making a new thread!
Please check in regular posters and welcome new people.
This is a super friendly thread to contribute to. We are all wanting to be as efficient as possible re spending but all have different budgets and priorities. No judgement here we are all friends 😊

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MaryGreenhill · 14/10/2025 17:11

Glad you had a good time in Center parcs @pistachiosanscream 😁
Well done on the budgeting too 👏

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RumBananaSundae · 14/10/2025 18:32

NSD today. Yesterday was £3.50 in Marks and Spencer and £25 on an event ticket for December. Chocolate milk from Marks and Spencer is not very nice.

Sorry to hear about your though time @PearlsPearl. Completely understand about hitting the buy buy buy. I hope things might be looking a little brighter today.

Goodo on the overpayment @Alwayslearning25 .

How was your cruise @chimichangaz? Hope it was fab. And well done on the BT bill and on the tax and the lottery ticket.

@MaryGreenhill I wondered about Jennifer too.

Supper today (and yesterday) was a freezer and cupboard mix of rice, vegetables and some onion bhajis. There’s some left for tomorrow too. Had an email from the solicitor yesterday. They started work yesterday though it was meant to be next week. Not sure it makes much difference but it took me by surprise. Not a fan of surprises.

Alwayslearning25 · 14/10/2025 18:59

I finally managed to use my swagbucks £10 gift card I'd earned mostly from surveys to bring down the price of the echo dot kids, to £19.99....DH doesn't think we should give it to DD, but I didn't want to pass on the deal, I'll have to think of someone to gift it to....or talk to DH about it....
Today I spent money in MacDonalds and have paid for regular Aftee school club sessions. Arranging playdates has been a new academic years resolution. I think it would be good for DD as well as cheeper than after school club.

MaryGreenhill · 14/10/2025 19:25

@RumBananaSundae aw sorry you heard from the solicitor and wasn't expecting it . I hope you are feeling a bit more relaxed about it now 💐 .
Pity about the chocolate milk l thought it would be really lovely from M&S.
Well done on the Swagbucks @Alwayslearning25 👏☺️

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Mochi1fudge · 14/10/2025 22:59

Attended a financial workshop via work this morning. Really helpful and in work time - picked up loads of useful info. Made some goals and actions - first one is to contact my AVC pension provider tomorrow as I've realised they haven't set it up, requested 6 months ago!

Lidl £37.24
Coop £4.57
Shein £20 (DD chose items for a Halloween outfit)

Cruising and Center Parcs both sound great. Hope all enjoyed.

Sorry not had the chance to catch up properly.

HP87 · 15/10/2025 11:18

@Johaanah trying to find the balance between spending to have a nice time with the kids over half term but also saving is a tricky balance to get. I was running low on money towards the end of the six weeks summer holidays and it was a struggle towards the end. I have put some money aside to make sure we have one big day out over the week and hopefully fill the rest with parks etc. DDs dance still runs over half terms so that will ensure she has something to do on most of the days, plus a day out. I'm learning to take it one half term at a time, normally I'm already panicking and booking this for Feb half term now and it's not even Oct half term yet!

I was looking at when we have to pay back the higher rate child benefit charge yesterday and found out that DH can just pay it through PAYE now! That will make it so much easier. So he is going to set that up. The money I had saved to pay the charge I have split between the mortgage and decorating (as I will reduce those monthly outgoings when his pay drops with his tax going up) and given ourselves a little extra spending. My friend still wants to go out Saturday, but I assumed we'd cancel so spent the money elsewhere, but now I need more so it has come at the right time! I won't be going out until 6 though so we will be having a low spend day - DS1 has dance and swimming and DD has a dance and a swimming pool party so they'll both be shattered. DS2 will be fine with a play in the garden to wear him out. DH will probably just pay for a takeaway for them all while I am out.

Got some tickets for a show for April, it has gone on DH credit card however I will put a bit aside each month to cover it. I had to get tickets for others too so the credit card was the best option. Couldn't wait until I had the money as the tickets might have sold out, its a popular event and we needed 7 tickets together. So this is my next big test to ensure I pay back the money to the credit card for mine and 2 x kids tickets. That is definitely something I wouldn't have done before!

BigSkies2022 · 15/10/2025 12:20

Greetings from the far side of the 60 shore, comrades! Devon was amazing, sunny, beautiful and made me hanker to move back west. Plymouth has had a mighty upgrade since I was an habituée. South Hams estuaries and beaches incredible. I did notice, however, that towns like Dartmouth, Seaton and Beer were decidedly old in demographic profile outside the school holidays. Glebe House, where DH booked us in for the actual birthday weekend was glorious. Step count is through the roof - even Fat Spaniel is looking much slimmer! - and the challenge now is to keep it up - south London not so picturesque as south Devon, sigh.

Anyway, back home, and working my way through financial admin. Lump sum from pension scheme received, so I'm basically doing a 3 way split: some to fund renovations, some to go into cash savings/resilience fund, some to go into S&S ISA investments. The first monthly payment should come in on the 10 November, and will cover my basics/essentials. Once I get the rental property back out on the market, I will be able to resume saving/investing/and more fun spends.

I am now the happy possessor of a 60+ Oyster pass, so can have free travel on most TFL networks, and subsidies on others. I am busy booking free/low cost outings so that I can use my magic pass to get to stuff where previously the £8 or so travel costs might have made me pause. So far I am going to the Millet exhibition at the National Gallery on Friday (free entry); Blue/Orange at the Greenwich Theatre on Saturday (£5 ticket via ShowFilmFirst club); an IFS seminar on 4 November at the British Library (free), plus two book groups (free, books from library). I am very happy to be able to cruise around London and plan to use it whenever I can.

I also have the flat to renovate - works start on 27th and there's prep I need to do beforehand. And DMum and Ddad to visit and take to appointments - seeing them on Friday and again next week. DS is back and forth on work gigs, so eating at odd hours. I am attempting to batch cook decent meals so that he doesn't just jam a frozen fish fillet into the oven and put it on a bagel. I listened to a Guardian podcast about the rise of bowel cancer among young people and the evidence is pointing to UPFs....

BTW: if anyone listens to Making Money podcast (with Damien and T) and hasn't yet tried their get.most AI advice app, I'd recommend it. I have been using it to help with some planning and questions over the last couple of days and it's really helping sort out some points I'd been struggling with. Obviously it's still not personal financial advice, and you should double check, but it's pointing me towards all the right questions and sources. It will help you draft emails as well.

Right, off to ALDI: step count, ingredients for next couple of batch meals and podcast time. I gave the house a good clean before we went away, so I don't have too much to do on that front, but the garden needs some love as well.

MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 14:19

You have all done so well organising everything, well done to the three of you @HP87 , @BigSkies2022 and @Mochi1fudge 👏🤗
You put me to shame 🤬
I need to sort myself out Pronto😁
NSD for me today yay!

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ChipshopPickledEgg · 15/10/2025 14:21

I feel like a never ending expense at the moment never much but it definitely adds up couldn't even begin to list everything.
Half term soon I have put some money to one side after reading a post on here have a few play dates booked so hopefully won't spend as much as I had saved.

needastrongoneagain · 15/10/2025 14:56

Ah, Comrade @BigSkies2022- good to have you back! Many Happy Returns! Hooray for the free Oyster Card - what a boon, enjoy. Devon sounds my sort of place. I’m listening to various podcasts warning about an AI bubble with varying degrees of concern from the presenters.

It can feel like the money is leaking out can’t it at times @ChipshopPickledEgg

Well done on the NSD @MaryGreenhill

I’m in a lovely honeymoon period re finishing work in that I’m trying to relax a bit and also slowly work through a number of jobs that have been on the list forever as I’ve chased myself into exhaustion juggling the business and caring and life. I feel such a weight off my shoulders. I’ve particularly enjoyed having the time to cook or make things for lunches, huge salads to last a few days and soups etc. I’ve cajoled DH into do in a few short walks or half an hour weeding the garden and we’ve met a couple of old friends for a hour or so (he gets tired very easily).

Spending
£60 Amazon on an electric toothbrush for DH’s birthday.
£7 Vinted (but have sold circa £30 of goods).
£18 refill of coffee.
£100 Ocado.

These are all budgeted and normal spends. I’ve also spend circa £100 on race entry fees. This is very exciting for me as I used to race a lot and have hardly raced at all since DH’s stroke. It’s the mark of a new start of perhaps getting back a little of the old me. It’s been agreed, endorsed and encouraged by my coach. Will come from my general spending pot.

I’ve also treated myself to a Didrikson coat from Vinted. This was £140 but they are £300 plus on the website. It’s new with tags. This will be my company sale treat. The Spaniel better be up for long winter walks to justify this outlay - he’s currently fast asleep at my feet not looking that enthusiastic 🤣.

MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 15:12

Oh that's wonderful news from you @needastrongoneagain1.
So pleased for you and your DH 🤗👏
Thank you re my NSD 😁
It seems neverending, the drain from resources l know @ChipshopPickledEgg
It will get better and in the meantime you have done great organising play dates for the DC well done 👍 ✅

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Frugal25 · 15/10/2025 15:52

Oohhh I shall check Aldi out for dupes if Lidl don't have tomorrow thank you!!!
Happiest of birthdays @BigSkies2022 enjoy your travel card and Devon is just beautiful isn't it??

£10.60 on swimming session tomorrow
£4.80 on parking at hospital last night as Dmum was blue lighted to a&e. Very tired but thankfully nothing wrong.
£28 on grass treatment.
£6 on a doll in b&m. My DD is nearly 4 and has never had a favourite toy until recently. A tiny doll she calls baby. Babys head fell off two days ago and despite trying to fix it, it was in vain. Researched baby and she was from b&m (we got her from a charity shop) and low and behold, they still do a version of her so that was bought yesterday.

Feels like I've spent more than that... Finally sorted out the parcels I sent in error on vinted so that money is coming my way plus the 3 other items too.

5 days until pay day. This month has been one for putting things on credit card which has made me feel sick. But it was always going to be a tight month and next month will be easier.

MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 16:29

Well done with achieving so much@Frugal25 👏😊
Thank God your Mum is alright 😊 💐
Happy birthday to your DH @BigSkies2022when it comes around ☺️👏

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Frugal25 · 15/10/2025 17:47

Ah thank you @MaryGreenhill ! Yes so very thankful she is ok. A proper worry that was.

Forgot to mention that I was also concerned regarding the rise of cancer in younger people and it does all seem to point at upf. The latest thing I've stopped buying are the little yogurts my DD adores as they are full of chemicals. We are now trying to buy plain yogurts and mix honey into them etc. but it's so flipping expensive

RumBananaSundae · 15/10/2025 17:50

Spending today was £9.25 in Waitrose on I don’t know what and £2.99 on a greetings card from Scribbler. Supper has been rice and vegetable leftovers. Have some for tomorrow too.

Many happy returns @BigSkies2022. Glad you had a nice time away. You sound rather organised. Fancy coming over and dealing with my mess?

Big whoops for being in the honeymoon period and finding downtime @needastrongoneagain. May it long continue.

Well done on poor baby @Frugal25. That was a good save. And I agree - good food is so much more expensive.

BigSkies2022 · 15/10/2025 18:25

Where are you Rum? I will visit!

BigSkies2022 · 15/10/2025 18:28

I used, like literally decades ago, to make my own yoghurt, in a yoghurt maker owned by a university friend who had a slightly hippie mum. I eat a lot of it now and was wondering if DIY yoghurt is a) easy without special equipment and b) cheaper. Anyone got any more recent experience than, um, 1988?

BigSkies2022 · 15/10/2025 18:31

Need, enjoy the honeymoon and your extra dedication to competitive running.

feel slightly guilty about the free card, since subsidising young people to get to work would be a more beneficial use of resources. However, try and get this pass off me!

MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 18:37

@Frugal25 l buy this from Tesco there is nothing other than milk in it. Waitrose and Sainsbury's do it

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MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 18:38

Don't you dare feel guilty over having that card @BigSkies2022, you have paid your taxes like everyone else and you're entitled to it .

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MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 18:42

@RumBananaSundae hope you are ok sweetheart. Don't like the sound of you eating that rice and veg again tonight and tomorrow. I wish we could do something to help 💐

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lifelongfrugaleer · 15/10/2025 20:08

Happy birthday big. Enjoy those 60+ perks

you enjoy & relax need. Well deserved

i got a yoghurt make from Lakeland and it’s fine. Natural starter yog & uht milk. V tasty, bit of a faff, not cheaper
it’s possible without a yog market but I don’t have a thermometer

hope mum is ok. Scary being blue lighted in

feeling meh here. £10 antibiotics
many Amazon spent & food for gcse practice
best rein it in as dh will be let time in as month

MaryGreenhill · 15/10/2025 20:11

Hope you feel better soon @lifelongfrugaleer poor you 💐

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chimichangaz · 15/10/2025 20:18

Loving the sound of your free post 60 travel @BigSkies2022 - I am so looking forward to my senior discounts when I reach 60 in December but sadly I don’t live in London so no free travel for me. Free prescriptions will save me £11 a month on my prepayment certificate though.
Didn’t spend anything yesterday. Today I was in the office so I bought my meal deal for £5.50 and also tea and half a cake after work meeting a friend.
I think one of my tyres has a slow puncture so I need to inflate it tomorrow and check it again in a couple of days. Happily it’s one of the ones I replaced in August and I took out an extended warranty so that shouldn’t cost me anything!
Sorry to hear about your mum in hospital @Frugal25 hope all ok now.
Sorry if I’ve missed anyone else’s updates but I’m completely knackered by doing a full day at work!! Have just seen this image on X which sums up how I feel 😴

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Frugal25 · 15/10/2025 21:51

Off to go to bed @chimichangaz , tomorrow will be better. Get some rest.
Ooohh I've seen that yogurt in Tesco @MaryGreenhill so I shall give it a go! Thank you.
My mum used to make yogurts in the 90s, remember them being delicious. Maybe I should get a yogurt maker too ...
Oh @lifelongfrugaleer , that's not good. Get better soon.

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